I'm tired of people using "well I was an asshole in my last life, what did you expect?" as an excuse to be an asshole. Well, in my last life I set boundaries and didn't hang out with assholes, what did you expect, that you would be so special I would make an exception for you? And no, I'm not going to give out details here that would point to a specific person because I'm hoping they'll grow up, but, uh, full disclosure? I survived being shot in a school shooting in this life. If you post "funny jokes" or "memes" about gun violence and school shooters and it's in a server I'm a moderator in, I will get you booted not just from that server, but preemptively banned from every other server I have friends who mod in. I can and will blacklist you so hard it'll make your head spin.
I don't know when people forgot this, but I'm Captain America. I got beat up chronically canonically, I nearly bled out to death in this life before I hit double digits age-wise, I have been in fights against Norse gods and Thanos and my best friend and managed to endure, and in this life I have survived three separate attempts to kill me by my bullies. I try to be nice. I try to be kind. I try to be understanding. I want to be a good man, not just someone who once was a good man.
Being good doesn't mean being weak or being a pushover. In the parlance of this era, come at me, bro. I'm not afraid to fight you. I don't care if you were a sourcemate or a canonmate or anything else to me before.
I don't like bullies. I don't care where they're from.
~ Captain America/Steve Rogers