#stop the hate!

[lulushults]

after seeing so many ship wars posts, i just wanted to come on and share my opinions of how dumb and pathetic it is. seeing strangers online ship two fictional characters and then wasting your time to either comment your dissagreement or spend time writing up a post talking about how ‘wrong’ it is is so utterly pathetic. theres always going to be ships you dont personally understand, i dont and never will see natsu and gray as anything more than brothers, however i understand why people would ship them! so i send my love, and move on! same with nali, i love them as kids but in present time i dont personally ship it, but once again i still send love because i understand why people ship them. its so unfortunate seeing people send so much hate just because they dissagree with a certain pairing of two characters.

we’re all members of a fandom for an anime that is all about family, love and acceptance. so why are we spreading so much hate?

[circle-gets-the-square]

does johnny lentil suck u good and hard thru your jorts

Hey guys, we’re thinking about shutting the Tumblr blog down. Less than 24 hours in and we have over 1,000 asks that are all more or less the exact same as this one. I just chose to showcase this one because it’s so accurate it’s a little unnerving…

[anstina]

Can we all just cut the hate alright? I’m seeing way too much hateful comments and anons on my dashboard right now and we need to stop it. We’re all here supporting our own club and but doesn’t mean u can be hateful towards your team’s rival or opponent fans. It just doesn’t work like that. You wouldn’t say all those nasty things to the person face to face so don’t say them behind anon. I know we’re a wonderful, brilliant, funny and clever community and I hate seeing it being this hateful and disrespectful. We can do better. We must do.

[dean-hugs-sammy]

Jensen Ackles at JIB8!

I rarely get involved when the fandom argues about something, but I’ve seen a lot of discussion on this part, and since I was actually there, I’ve got something to say. First of all, Jensen is a grown man (they are all adults!) who is more than capable of making his own decisions and say no if there’s something he doesn’t wanna do. No one - and I repeat - NO ONE was forced to drink alcohol during this con. The stage contained a table with water bottles - and the actors chose for themselves whatever they liked to drink during the day. Secondly, and most importantly, Jensen wasn’t drunk during his panel with Misha Sunday. I’d interacted with him several times during the day - at my J2 photo op session & at Jensen’s autograph session to mention a few. Both he and Jared were tired (the actors had been enjoying the evening in Rome Saturday) and were still a little jetlagged from their trip, but they were warm and kind and focused while interacting with their fans - as always! Jensen had gone through an emotional rollercoaster that day, having met a couple of ladies who worked the YANA crisis hotline, and it had hit him hard. As he said at the panel; the fans mean a shit-ton to him and the rest of the cast, and this was the first time he’d met some of the operators of the hotline in person. So at the panel, Jensen was vulnerable. In true Jensen fashion though, he probably tried to over-compensate for that by doing his best to make the panel light and make us laugh. However, Misha decided to bring up what had happened to Jensen during the day (with Jensen’s permission), and Jensen got emotional again talking about it.

This had nothing to do with alcohol. Jensen was completely on point! It saddens me that people are calling Jensen all sorts of things (saying he was drunk and forced to be it), when he chose to open up to us, and felt comfortable enough to do so. Compared to Jared, Jensen’s often more like a closed book. He doesn’t wear his feelings on his sleeve. But during the years, he’s opened himself up to his fans, and part of this (Jensen mentioned a few years back) is because he became a father. Jensen has said that the JIB con is his favorite con, and I think a part of this is because he and Jared get to be around the rest of the actors for multiple days (compared to Creation cons where they’re only there on the last day) and because the organizer really looks out for them and spoils them shitless. Some years back, there had been some issues at Creation cons with Ty Olsson who’d said/done some things under the influence of alcohol that had been inappropriate. Ty was then invited to JIB con, and the organizer made sure he didn’t drink too much, so there wouldn’t be any trouble. She looked after him and she looked after us, the fans. So, back to Jensen. IF there had ever been a single doubt whether or not the actors could control their alcohol consumption and/or do their job properly, I’m more than sure the organizer would have prevented it. However, Jensen is professional. He knows how to do his job. And he wasn’t drunk. Do not belittle his emotions by blaming it on alcohol! That’s disrespectful to a guy who embraces his fans and loves them as much as he does!

J2 are in general more touchy feely when they’re at this con - especially with each other. Jared has had several misfortunes around JIB time. Two years ago, we nearly lost him, and Jensen knows this. They’re best friends, they’re brothers - they look out for each other when they’re so far away from their families. Jared has often been the one to be open about his feelings. This time it was Jensen’s turn - and Jared was there for him. The panel was not uncomfortable in the slightest. It was a precious moment that brought tears to my eyes, and I will not sit back and allow people (especially people who weren’t even there!) to take that moment away from me or - more importantly - to take that moment away from Jensen! So can we please drop all the alcohol talk, and just love the man for being honest with us and for loving us so much in return? Thanks!

[altaircolin-blog]

She's leaving her kids for 5,5 months and won't see much of them. She will not fly them out and she will not fly off to London every weekend like she did with the Fall. She's giving them up for money. She isn't even excited. And now she is using her kids for her career and PR or whatever that is because no one convinces me that she went to Italy and suddenly paps found her in Colosseum and follow for two days...

I am so sick of this hypocrisy and blind prejudice! If she wouldn’t agree to do more xfiles you would hate her too. She will never win, no matter what!

And she is not a monster! She loves her children and it is not your business how she raises them. You cannot know what schedule she will have; and that was the reason the negotiations took so long. Because she wanted to have time for kids. The same scenario was with season 10, she even admitted it in one interview. You don’t know when the kids will be with her or when she will fly back to London. Stop judging and hating on her just because! She has tweeted 3 times about season 11, and David only once, but still, it is she who isn’t excited, doesn’t care, etc. I am really sick of this bullshit!

[acourtofstarsanddreams-blog]

Friendly PSA

Guys what’s with all the hostile ship-hating comments/posts I’ve been seeing lately?? :( 

It is 100% possible to criticize, analyze, or shed negative light on a character that you like because, *gasp* characters reflect real life, and no one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. It’s okay to say “character A is bitchy and selfish” but also still love that character!! Being aware of a character’s flaws is a good thing! It means you’ve understood, you’ve analyzed, you’ve thought critically, rather than just glancing over the text and gleaning nothing from it. 

Furthermore, we don’t all have to like the same things!! Books are diverse and open to interpretation, and so are characters and romances. One person’s blog who may ship Chaol/Celaena instead of Rowan/Aelin doesn’t ruin my personal preference for Rowaelin, because I still like what I like, and scrolling past someone’s blog who doesn’t like my ship doesn’t affect me IN ANY WAY. And even if a couple becomes canon, you don’t have to like it. Or force someone to like it, or dislike it. 

Lastly, THEY ARE FICTIONAL CHARACTERS. They aren’t real. Focusing that much energy on hating a ship or someone who likes a certain ship is crazy! I understand some people are just trolls looking to provoke others, but there are some who are just mean with no provocation.  

Ah, okay. Rant done. Honestly this was aimed at no one and nothing in particular, I’ve just seen lots of angsty posts these last few days and it’d be nice to see the SJM fandom sharing our thoughts constructively rather than some of the things I’ve seen lately. 

[marsinel88]

Are there any Russian-speakinng fans who doesen’t feel himself offended by the season 4 of Sherlock?! who still loves Godtiss for what they’ve create for this fandom? Я тут , и я жду всех желающих поддержать меня  во флэшмобе!

Флешмоб любви и благодарности. 28.01.2017 в 19:00 по Гринвичу.

Если ты прочёл заголовок, и почувствовал ярость на автора этого поста-лучше перестань читать сейчас.Потому что твоё мнение,хейтер мне не интересно, ты только испортишь себе нервы. А я молчать больше не намерена. Если честно, я всегда уважала Джонлокеров и всех представителей жанра “слэш” в нашем фандоме. Их арты великолепны, а их фанфики порой гораздо более яркие и насыщенные. Но я не могу спокойно смотреть на то,что происходит прямо сейчас с социальным сетями. Критика-это одно, а оскорбления и травля-совершенно другое. Мы можем критиковать их за дыры в сюжете, но обвинять их в том, что они нас обманули, когда они открыто говорили, что этого не будет? Это глупо. И всё,что сейчас происходит в твиттере Марка, в частности, ужасно. Люди, считающие, что их оскорбили, сами не заметили того,как стали оскорблять и унижать тех, кто подарил им этот фандом. Кто придумал целый мир, даровал вдохновение на долгие 7 лет. Тех, кого они ещё год назад возносили до небес. Общественное мнение-та ещё проститутка. И, как оказалось, эта беда пришла в наш фандом. Но я уверена, что есть люди, которые до сих пор благодарны Моффтиссам за те эмоции, тот кураж и ту историю,что они нам дарили все эти годы, заставляя наши мозги шевелиться. Сейчас мы выжигаем их сердце. Да, они профессионалы своего дела и могут просто игнорировать всю эту ситуацию. Но я не могу. Мне за них обидно. Потому что они не заслужили такого предательства со стороны людей, для которых они выложили столько сил. Я предлагаю устроить твиттер и тамблер флэш-моб в поддержку Марка и Стивена с двумя тегами #IBelieveInSherlockHolmes и #ThanksForSherlock( можно в обращением к твиттеру Марка, но не переусердствуйте) Если не попадём в тренды,так хотя бы дадим знать, что мы по-прежнему уважаем их творчество и любим их. Я знаю, я не одна! 28 января, в субботу в 19:00 по Гринвичу(22:00 по Москве)

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