#stopanonhate

[david-bowie-flowers]

Hi i would like to ask for an advice or just ask you one question but it’s out of theme of the blog. What do you think about bullying and maybe you have or had an experience with it? I just can’t deal with bullying at school and it makes me feel dead. You are my favourite blog and thank you for making me smile when I’m sad. I hope you will answer.

Hello, Anon, Iappreciate that you trust me. I’m also glad that I can make you feel betterwith the things I do. Asking the question that doesn’t refer to Bowie &flowers is alright, ‘cause you’re not at Botany lesson and you can askwhatever you’d like to know. So I’ll try to be a psychologist for ya and I’dalso like to warn you, that you’ll have to read A LOT. And when I say ‘a lot’,I really really mean a lot. Idk will you regret asking me about bullying,because I’ve got the same big experience as A LOT. So get ready, I guess.

It’s sad that you getbullied at school, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t get rid of that. I’mreally sure that you just have to get rid of that, ‘cause I know by my ownexperience that getting bullied may (and mostly will) give you mentalillness and other probs. Believe me, I know what I’m talking about. I’m gonnatell you a little story about my ‘bullying experience’. Not because I’m askingfor compassion, pity or attention, but because I want you to know what puttingup with bullying can lead to.

So I think I’ll startwith kindergarten time. I went to the kindergarten at another country, becausemy family had moved. (Note: I don’t wanna say that people from other countriesare shit just because they are from other counties. I’m not talking aboutnations, I’m talking about personalities. No racist things. Every country hasgood and bad people) I always was quite a shy kid and making new friends was andactually still is hard for me. As you know, most of children don’t likequiet ones. I don’t know how it works and why, but if you’re shy and quiet, getready to be bullied, “’cause you’re weak”. So most of other children always tookaway my toys, drew in my books, broke my pencils and etc. I’ve been trying, butI couldn’t make them stop it. One day they started to throw sand and grass at me and shout silly stereotype jokes just because I said that I’m Jewish. Thatwas my last day at kindergarten. And nobody could answer my question, “Whatwrong have I done for them to hate me?” It’s hard to live when you still can’tfind the answer.

What about schoolyears? I became quieter and shyer. All I wanted to do is just to hide myselffor others not to notice me. I was afraid of people, I was afraid to saysomething to them, my self-esteem was as low as Challenger Deep, I wassuffering from anxiety. I’ve never had a lot of friends that’s why I reallyappreciate the ones that I have (of course, I mean my Tumblr friends too 💖). Allthat shit that was happening to me for years gave me the feeling when you thinkthat people hate you. Like, y’know, you’ve been chatting to each others, butyour friend doesn’t really write you a lot and you don’t really interact recently.And you’re like, “What happened? Have I done something wrong? Do they hate me?”When they never hated you and they’ve always loved you. Fck I still feel thesame sometimes

‘What’s the message?’you ask. All I want you to know is the fact that putting up with bullying canmake you feel like you live in hell. It can make you afraid of everything, itcan make you hate yourself, it can make you wanna hide from the world. Andthat’s not what your life should be. Just stand up, you don’t have to be afraidof them. It’s time for them to be afraid of you! Be yourself, do whatever youlike, don’t look at others!

I’ve said it thousandsof times, but I’ll say it again. The world needs more loving and caring people.Of course, there’s a difference between complaining, nagging and talking about yourprobs or the way how you feel. But it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t be kind toothers. It doesn’t mean that we should close our eyes when others ask for help.The world may be cold, but somebody should be caring. And I’m thankful that Iknow some of that kind of people (you know who I’m talking about).

I also hope that you’llfeel better and write me back when you do. Just let me know when you’realright. Also, this video (x) can help you. Thank you for asking that question andraising that kind of hard topic for convo. No matter what they tell you, you’rewonderful and I love you! 💖

Peace & Love

[ask-lil-brother-bendy-blog]

Reblog if you want to #StopAnonHate

[utaprishockingheart-blog]

I hate you guys

I hate you anon snobs with a burning passion. One of my new bestest fucking friends is going to leave because of your bullshit. Keep your damn hate comments to yourself and leave people alone

@shining--live don't let those idiots crush you like that. They can all get thrown into the ocean and drown for all I care. Who needs them you have amazing friends and fans and all the crazy utapri characters who won't judge you for anything

Please come back

[david-bowie-flowers]

Do you get anon hate or not?

This is officially the wierdest ask I’ve ever seen in my askbox, ‘cause it sounds like, “Does people hate you, too, or you’re the only one who’s holy?” Fuck that shit, but when has getting anon/not anon hate msgs became normal?? What has happened on this bloody planet and where I was at that moment? 

You know, I don’t get hate msgs (I only got about 3 or 4 during all the time that I’m running my blog) and you won’t find it anywhere. At first, I wanted to answer that shit, but then I decided that it’d be much better not to answer at all. Of course, when somebody writes you smth like, “Your blog is shit and blah blah blah”, you wanna answer with, “Then do someting better if you can”. Another side of the coin (or still the same, idk) is getting messages like, “Kill yourself, u piece of goddamn shit.” I think the 2nd situation is something more than hate and I’ve got no idea why people send it to others. No matter how much you hate this person and how much this person annoys you, don’t you dare sending “kill yourself” msgs! I swear, I’ll punch you in your face if you do something even close to this! yeah, this is a threat, just deal with it

The main thing that I wanted to say that one day I decided not to answer hate messages and not to keep it in my blog. Because I want people to visit my blog, see David Bowie and flowers and just be happy. I don’t wanna them to see hate, ‘cause my blog isn’t a place for negative. It’s a place for inspiration, but not for hate at all. And I won’t allow for hate to be posted here. 

Even gnomes are welcomed! Anon hate? Not my cup of tea! 

Peace & Love for y’all 💖💖

[marieserener-blog]

Friendly Reminder

Anon hate asks are legit petty. If you wanna say something say it to my face, and let me know who you are. That is all.

[superweirdnerdalertt]

Why on earth do you follow @cas-is-my-hero ? I mean you seem like a true fan

Why on earth do you feel you have to anonymously hate on @cas-is-my-hero, who is such a sweet and kind person? Please kindly fuck off.

[mscosplayofyrc]

Being an anon hater

Okay, I know this happens to a lot of people, artists, cosplayers, random fandom blogs and the likes. But if you are a hater who takes time out of their life to go on anon on tumblr, thiscrush, or any other account and leave hate, that means either you like said person or you are a sad pathetic human being who likes seeing people suffer. And you need to stop. Look, most of the people who end up getting hate are fairly popular people. And honestly I believe it needs to stop. All weekend I was getting anon hate on my thiscrush, and yes I joked about it on Instagram, but you know what? When you call someone a faggot, a slut, a whore, retarded, fatass, etc. After a whole weekend of doing that to someone it gets to them. You hate anon's are the ones that drive some amazing people to self harm or commit suicide because your words hit them so hard, specially when multiple people are doing it. Why dont you tell us who you are and let us leave you the same hate you leave us. Maybe then you will see what it is you are doing. I may be a single voice for this, but maybe enough people will reblog this that it will travel tumblr and social media.

[bees-are-coming-blog]

This makes me sick. We've all received them, hate mail from shitty dudes attempting to destroy us for simply expressing an opinion. The attacks are always personal and can get very violent. As a country we should be ashamed. Rather than simply banning people's accounts due process of law should be followed. We waste so much money convicting young and old people for doing Crack or whatever, yet we don't use a penny of that to enforce protections against hate speech online.