#stop anon hate

[lilikoiyu]

what has been happening recently… all my fav writers are leaving tumblr and i don’t think i’m gonna make it

[muffeteertale]

please don't ever send anon hate

Please it could literally be someone's last straw, it could be their final push, it could be the wrong sign they were looking for, it could be on their most special day, it could be on their worst day, it could be when they needed literally anything else.

You can not like someone that's fine. But block and move on

it doesn't matter if you're trolling, it's still hate

Block and move on

[musesforthedamned]

Friendly reminder: if someone’s creativity bothers you, the unfollow button is free.

I don’t normally get involved in this kind of thing, but seeing someone send hate to a genuinely good person and talented writer is unacceptable to me.

So I'm, yeah. Just gonna say this once.

If you’re sending hate to someone I care about because you don’t like their writing, their OC, or how they portray a character, maybe take the hint Tumblr gives you and unfollow. Tumblr also has a block button.

Use them.

No one is forcing you to be here.

What Tumblr does not have is any requirement for someone to change their writing, their characters, or the way they create because a random anon decided to be miserable that day.

I’ve seen the work they put into their blog and their muses. It’s creative. It’s thoughtful. And a lot of people genuinely enjoy it.

I’m one of them.

So if anyone thinks anonymous messages are going to bully them into changing who they are or how they write, you picked the wrong blog.

And honestly? This goes beyond just one person.

The roleplay community, the writing community, and honestly everyone on this site deserves basic respect and kindness. Creativity should be encouraged, not torn apart by people hiding behind anonymous icons.

If something isn’t your taste, you move on. That’s how this place works.

So here’s the bottom line: The block button exists for a reason. The unfollow button exists for a reason.

Use them.

But the rest of us?

We’re going to keep supporting the people we care about. Keep building spaces where creativity is actually welcome. Keep cheering on the writers we admire.

And for the record?

They’re one of the kindest and most talented writers on this site.

The people who actually matter are still here reading. And the rest of us will happily keep cheering them on.

[p-ai-nter]

Bro??? Like wtf? You realize it's not normal to regress, go get some real coping mechanisms and suck up your life, go hide. Nobody wants a mentally ill confused women in life. You have to be mentally wrong to be transgender, it's not normal to just change your gender because you want. You're just a women that has issues and can't handle growing up.

Ok. I did NOT need this today. But here we go. For one. Any regression/Regressor is valid. So don't come rearing your ugly head around here again. And you did NOT just insult the trans community. Oh boy, you've entered a WHOLE ASS different level of me. I know you want me to cry about this. I'm not gonna because you are just a sad pathetic hater on the trans community <3 how about you get a life sweetie and stop living out of your mother's basement. Also, in case you didn't know, ALL TRANS ARE VALID. We all have our own reasons why we've don't what we've done. Don't insult us for being us! Geez. I feel like everyday it's something else with you anons. Can't even be yourself without getting hated on. I'm so sorry for everyone and this world. Is this the reaction you wanted anon?? Boo hoo I'm so sad. No, I'm fucking infuriated. So get out and never come back.

[blackmonitor]

End of October... so I'm a bit emotional this time of the year. I lost someone a few years ago around this time. I thought she would be around more. I didn't have the opportunity to speak about my feelings with her. And that always made me realize that I should tell people how I feel about them.

So I'm going to hit a few ask buttons now. Feel free to do whatever with them. I saw the love spreading train post not long ago, and I wish to fill people's ask button with love! Hate is always foolish, and love is always wise, as the Doctor said once.

And there is one ask button I can't hit anymore because the person deactivated the blog. I'll start with them:

Dear @offscreen-scream-deactivated202!

Your art touched something about me. The way you drew your lines and colored them is stunning to me. I often stopped scrolling and just stared at them for many minutes. I had one of your art as my screensaver, and often times I caught myself looking at it and daydreaming. Your OCs again touched something in my soul, and I was very interested in them. I hope one day I can buy a book about them! We had our differences, but we could solve them, and I'm happy that we are friends. I don't know what happened or why you deactivated your account, but I hope we can speak again one day! I enjoyed our conversations very much. I miss them, and I hope we can talk again someday!

Edit: I forgot to upload the photo, lol. It’s not fresh, I already has a different background (and tablet), but that’s  another story. 

[sfb123]

Dang… I just stepped out of a department meeting to find that tumblr was blowing the fuck up. Everyone has already made phenomenal statements, and amazing points, so much so that I would just be regurgitating a less eloquent version of what has already been said. So while I will continue to reblog those posts to show my support, I am going to take a different angle with my personal statement.

It makes my heart so happy to see everyone come together and stand up against this common enemy, because that’s what this situation/person/stunt is, an enemy.

When I started in this fandom, I was so excited to have other people to talk to about my pixelated loves, and everyone was so nice and so welcoming, but I quickly learned that there was a darker side to this world hiding not too far beneath the surface.

I am not the kind of person that opens up easily to others, but I do love being a source of support and kindness for good people. In the last few months my time doing that has largely been spent being a sounding board for fandom friends who have been getting unnecessarily hated on and harassed, mostly anonymously. It has broken my heart to have to talk people off the ledge, and convince them that not only their work is worth it, but they themselves are worth it as valuable people in this fandom, and in this world.

I am so thrilled to see that everyone is finally taking a untied stand against this childish, petty, and unnecessary behavior. This is the fandom I thought I joined almost a year ago, and this is the fandom I am proud to continue to be a part of.

I’ve said it a million times before, but I never intended on making friends when I came here, but I am so very glad that I didn’t stick to that plan. I love you all dearly and am proud to stand beside you to stop all forms of fandom hate once and for all. We are a small, very specialized community, we should be spending our time lifting each other up instead of being sneaky and trying to knock each other down.

💚💜

Xoxo

sfb

PS - make note of the silence you see from people about all of this, it tends to be louder than the voices that are actually speaking.

[mrstransformersfanfiction]

Blocking is setting boundaries. There is absolutely nothing wrong with putting your foot down on social media. People see it as rudeness and I often get scolded until I learned that sometimes you just need to do what is right for you when you put others repeatedly so much when you don't expect anything in return.

Yes we can always resolve but not everything is communication with everyone. I learned it the very hard way from experienced and said I was annoying. Therefore, I don't try anymore when given the benefit of doubt. To others, communication depends on comprehension and depends on a wide way of situations. I vent and I usually stay to myself and people couldn't stand my own attitude.

These days, I have very little time even to myself. I feel these days, like I'm literally drowning half the time. So I am not interested in anyone making a fuss when I put my own wall up and distant myself from people for now. It's not to say I'm ignoring people but a stand to protect my own mental health. Everyone have a right to protect their own mental health, stay with their group and be on their own way. 💜🌏

That saying, I'm tired of FB or strangers reaching other social areas out to the point I already lost count how many I send for blocking. I know it hurts for people and had made a huge asked why I blocked. But, respect people's decision. Don't hassle them to unblock you if already made up their mind. Everyone works differently and not everyone is the same. 📚✍️

Good writers usually can't be anonymous b/c people don't use their own bloody heads and that's why so many people have walls up. If people want a safe community, don't let anon hate continue. It's stupidity and full of shit. If you want tumblr to be safe, then treat people the way you want to be treated. What comes around always comes back to you. 🌏

[General post PSA: I learned never to call out to people b/c it never ends well. Inbox is there for a reason and it really depends on my mood to associate with people or not at the end of the day. All writers also have a real life so don't expect anyone to be on 24/7 all day. Interaction post is fine. I'm just slow as a snail these days. ]

[sugary-sweet-anon]

To all anons sending hate to @maybe-natalee-03

Her cough was serious. Serious enough to be in the hospital coughing up blood. She could've died! You people shouldn't be sending hate to anyone to begin with! What the hell is wrong with you?! Seriously what kind of life do you have that makes you think sending hate is okay?! People like you are the ones that don't belong here. Not Natalie, not anyone else you send hate to. You want them to leave??

No

YOU leave.

GROW UP