When the news broke out I was in shock to be honest, as did most of us I assume. Who wouldn’t be right? They just went public with their relationship now they are getting married? What the heck right?! I searched for articles and saw his post on Weibo. It was painful. It was true. :3 Up to now i’m still absorbing the reality that this day is bound to happen not only to Sungmin but to all of the SJ members as well. Its really intense how ELFs are reacting. Some are really pained doing extremes like hurting themselves? LADIES PLEASE, ITS NOT EVEN WORTH IT. YOU THINK HE’LL BE HAPPY IF YOU DID THAT? I DON’T THINK SO. HE’LL JUST BE DEPRESSED. JUST STOP BEING SO OBSESSIVE. He has to be happy too, we all deserve to be happy JUST NOT WITH HIM. Everyone has their own fairytales, AND HE HAS HIS OWN. The least we can do is to fully support him in his decision and be HAPPY for him. STAY BY HIS SIDE. DON’T LEAVE THE FANDOM JUST COZ HE’S GONNA GET MARRIED. Sorry for the word but THAT’S THE DUMBEST REASON I’VE EVER HEARD for you to leave the fandom. He, they gather strength from us. So leaving would mean weakening them. SUPPORT AND LOVE SJ NO MATTER WHAT! Be happy Lee Sungmin. Annyeong namjachingu, I give you away to someone else for you to be happy. :)