#stopblamingyourself

[moshkovsky]

Інколи можна перекласти відповідальність з себе на хуйовий світ, але дуже інколи, щоб перепочити) #everythingisalreadyfuckedup #stopblamingyourself #анбиливабле #жиза #арт #прикол #юмор #комикс #мемы #moshkovsky #moshkovsky_art #мошковскаяжиза (at Kyiv, Ukraine) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKjRh_AHO4I/?igshid=8xo2flexg6ts

[backpackgirlsstuff]

When they no longer love you, no longer want you, no longer happy with you. That's the only option, find happiness in you *now* stop being stubborn 😪

[backpackgirlsstuff]

No one say this gonna be easy but I trust you can make it even if there's no one would believe, just believe in yourself ❤ Rise your head, keep that smile! . . . #selflove #stopblamingyourself #startaccepting #believeinyourself #loveyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/CJF_0zxj11a/?igshid=fmhrmrtxbnt6

[adlywishal]

Stop do compare

Berhentilah melakukan hal-hal yang jauh dari kata manfaat. Mau tau hal apa yang semakin membuat kita tampak begitu buruk? Bahkan terlihat buruk oleh mata sendiri. Hal yang biasa jika orang lain menganggap buruk diri kita, karena kita tidak akan mampu menyenangkan semua mata dan menenangkan semua hati. Tapi berbeda jika kita sudah tampak buruk oleh diri sendiri.

Apapun yang kita lakukan, sebaik apapun itu akan selalu melahirkan kerisauan. Permasalahan kecil akan selalu tampak runyam, kesalahpahaman selalu membuat hati kecewa berlebihan.

Apa yang sebenarnya hal yang tidak bermanfaat dan membuat kita buruk dimata sendiri? Jawabannya Adalah "Membanding-bandingkan pribadimu dengan pribadi lain".

So, now, please be focus, dont look at the mirror but go outside and see how beautiful is Allah Gift to you more than your lack.

Berhenti membandingkan dirimu dengan pribadi lain. Mereka ada pada jalur yang telah Allah sediakan untuknya begitupula dirimu dengan jalurmu sendiri. Mencoba membandingkan jalur milik orang lain dengan jalurmu sama saja mendekati celaka akibat kehilangan fokus.

[hergalaxskies]

9 THINGS YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD

Overthinking things - Many times we overthink things which clutters our mind. Sometimes it’s best to just make up your mind and take action. Like the old saying goes: ‘He who hesitates is lost!’

Being worried about what others think - Caring about what other people think is a huge source of mind clutter. If you really care what other people think, maybe you are hanging out with the wrong people.

Living in the past - The past has already happened, so no point in wasting valuable brain power on it as there is nothing you can do about it anyways. Learn from it and move on.

Feeling sorry for yourself - Again this isn’t helping anything. Taking responsibility for your life and where you are in it can be extremely empowering. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, figure out how to improve yourself. 

Being jealous - Instead of being jealous of others, be happy for them. It doesn’t make you any less of a person and is only cluttering your mind.

Negative thoughts - Those pessimistic thoughts always creeping into your mind are not doing you any good, so get rid of them.

Insecurities - Everyone has insecurities but letting them dominate your thoughts is not a good thing.

Comparing yourself to others - This is a losing battle because there is always someone smarter, in better shape, better looking, more competent, etc. Focus on being the best you possible!

Fear or worrying about what ‘may’ happen - Most of the time, these things never end up happening, so why worry about them?

[yoongi-scalp-blog]

Please dont blame urself yoongi. He's too lovely a human being not to deserve everything good in the world.

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[singanddanceyourheartout]

Sorry not Sorry.

Last night I was up in bed thinking a lot. About a recent event that has triggered my emotions to make me put myself down. My sister turned to me and after much nagging, I finally told her what was on my mind. My sister blew up when I told her. Now I have seen her mad, but she was very pissed off when I told her. She pointed something out to me that I always turned a blind eye to. Every single time something happens in my life, I always find the fault in MYSELF. I blame MYSELF. Point the gun at MYSELF. Consider MYSELF the bad guy, when I have done nothing wrong. I tell the truth and speak my heart and yet I always throw the blame on myself. Why do i have to keep putting myself down in the dumps for something i didn't do wrong. For those who wouldn't do the same for me.  I told the truth. I spoke my heart. Yeah it hurts, and I'm sorry for that, but I'm not the bad guy. I'm tired of considering myself the bad guy. I am not the bad guy. I considered the people around me, my close friends. Whatever the situation I was first to defend them and blame myself. But none of these people ever stuck by me. They are barely real friends, let alone my close friends. Real friends are those who accept you. They don't try to change you. They like you for who you are no matter how annoying you may be. They listen, help, & sympathize. They would RESPECT the way I feel about something, no matter how much they oppose. But mostly they understand. And I'm tired of putting people around me that don't understand me no matter how much they say they do. So yes. I'm sorry that I hurt you. I am sorry that situations turn up against our nature. But I'm not sorry for speaking my mind. I'm not sorry for feeling the way I do. Sorry that I'm not as sorry as you want me to feel.