neilnordegraf said: “you used to be so nice” is the ugliest thing you can say to someone who stopped letting people walk all over them… i love u
plasticoctopus said: this is so fake you’re so nice they just saying this cause they’re racist lol
honestly thank u guys so much <3 i really used to be such a fukn pushover when i was younger and anyone whos been following me for like 3+ years will remember that
i worked really hard on myself to be more comfortable asserting my feelings and myself and it took a long ass time?? but im finally confident enough to stand up for myself and not be afraid to come across as Too Aggressive or anything lame like that. so to have someone tell me that im “mean” now bc i became confident in myself and started to love myself a little bit is just... lol
strawberrybees said: ive followed you for what has to be five years now you put up with as much bullshit now as you did then…. None
GOD I HONESTLY PUT UP WITH SO MUCH BACK THEN... I HAD ABSOLUTELY ZERO SELF-ESTEEM LMAO
(now i have .5 self-esteem so its getting better)