Greetings. What is a healthy and balanced Fi in INTJ like?
Thank you for this question. A healthy and balanced Fi would manifest in INTJs as:
- A strong and unwavering set of morals. In a healthy INTJ and due to the constant questioning approach of the type, these morals would probably be the final conclusions of a well-thought mental process in which different perspectives and angles have been taken into consideration.
- A strong connection with the inner self. INTJs are individuals with a rich and deep inner world, however unhealthy individuals will perceive this depth as a constant source of deep melancholy, uneasiness and even sorrow. A healthy INTJ will use their balanced Fi to stay in sync with their personal truth.
- A good acknowledgement and acceptance of their emotions. As much as the “evil, cold, has no clue about emotions” INTJ stereotype has gone way too far, I think it is accurate to state that it is rather common for INTJs to feel bewildered, uncomfortable and frustrated towards their feelings, even more so when they appear as “illogical” from a purely rational perspective.