#stronger you

[thedarkestbean]

This is your daily reminder that everything is going to be okay:] every day is one more step in the direction you want to go, some days you might trip and fall, some days you might stop and rest, but every day is still another step forward

[habitablemindset]

Biggest Supporter

We have grown too comfortable in becoming our ‘own worst critic’. Beating ourselves up about the littlest things, ignoring our emotions for the sake of others, allowing negative thoughts to deeply affect us and not valuing our worth. Why have we grown so comfortable to this? Is it because it comes from a familiar place, a familiar voice? We all know that voice very well, as Don Miguel Ruiz calls it the parasite. “ The Parasite is a garbage eater. It loves fear and drama; it loves anger, jealousy, and envy; it loves any emotion that makes you suffer.” The human mind has become sick with a parasite, it’s the same parasite we allow to feed off us and in such a way that it causes our mind to become inhabitable. Pushing away any happy or positive thought because that’s not what it feeds on. Why have we allowed it to form such a strong bond with us? This is not a question to blame because it is not you or your fault. This is a question to help us better understand our relationship with our parasite and to find another relationship within us to build. The supporter, if we have the power to become our worst critic than we have the power to become our biggest supporter. Everyone has the ability to become their own supporter but it’s up to you to find that within yourself. I, for example, have found my own supporter within the words I speak and write. The words I use to help the people I care about are what make me realize that if I can help others and help them feel better then I can do that for myself. The words I use in writing fuel a powerful feeling of pride within me and it causes me to admire myself. You can find your supporter too. Think about what makes you feel pride for yourself, what makes you think ‘shit I’m awesome as hell’, what aspects of yourself do you think about and it puts a smile on your face? Remember to approach this with care. You’re not looking for flaws, mistakes or the things you wish you could change but rather admiring the things you take for granted within yourself. We are all much stronger than we think we are. We deserve to give ourselves a better life filled with joy and self-love and compassion. I hope my writing has inspired you to find your own supporter. I will continue to write on more helpful topics, feel free to message me with any questions or even topic ideas. 

Much love. -Kim

[slimgenemd-blog]

And with a better stamina, you do well in all aspects of life.

[yogiyasuke]

There are many ways to becoming the strongest version of yourself

Elliot Hulse

[learning-to-forgive-blog]

Become stronger by evaluating yourself

You know it's crazy when you think about it, but I think there's at least one person in everyone's life who will change them forever. I was talking to a close friend about how he met this awesome kid, who's basically healthy in every way; eats organic, works out everyday, and is very social and according to him a lovable guy. Yet what you probably wouldn't expect is that he's got cancer, and doctors say he's got 5% chance to live past 5 years, yet here he is living life to it's fullest, and doing everything he can and making the best of his life. And that's when I heard my friend say that he made him question about how he took some things for granted. And that's what I mean. I think we all meet a special someone in life, and i'm not talking about some significant other, but I mean just like a random stranger, and that's when you realize how lucky you really are to be you, and not the other guy. You change and realize that life is too short, and too quick to let things be. Life can't be taken granted for. It's these types of people that will change you and make you into someone stronger. I'm glad my friend met this guy and told me. Me? I met my "special person" a while ago, and I can't say that I love him any less than I did back when he was still with us. Some people read Tuesdays With Morrie, yet here I was living it. I got my life lessons earlier than most do in life, but still, today I'm a stronger person because of it. Everyone's got that special person out there. (And I know you said I was one of them, but that's only cause you're the man Chough <3 lol) but honestly that meant a lot to me knowing I made a difference to others. So thanks Chough, love ya broski. But seriously guys, once you meet that person, you'll honestly see what I'm talking about.