#suave ampithere bitty

[selkiesbittybonanza]

I’ll take a match-up! I’m an INFP-T and my love languages are touch/quality time, so I love hugs/cuddling. I have autism (I'm good at masking though), mild social anxiety, and ADHD inattentive type. I'm also a people pleaser and I don't like conflicts, so I have a hard time saying no to people. I also struggle with sleeping at night, so I compensate with naps. I do tend to hyperfixate on my interests, and I do have the classic ADHD executive dysfunction, and I tend to be very forgetful as well.

I also get overwhelmed with a lot of social activity so I need recharge days (this can include hanging out quietly playing games/reading/watching YT, really anything that doesn't involve a lot of movements and social interaction). Some of my hobbies include reading/writing (high fantasy), D&D, gaming, and listening to music. I've already adopted a King, a Corny, and a Papython from Vex’s bitty shop, and I’m thinking about adopting maybe two from here. I would prefer ones that maybe are not quite as high energy since it can be kind of overwhelming for me. Thank you!

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Welcome to the shop! For you I recommend:

Nebula: These guys are laid back to the max, he’d probably get into napping competitions with your Corny, if that didn’t seem like too much work. Nebulas like to feel tall, so having them wrapped around your shoulders or have a perch on a bookcase or other tall object. They’re the perfect hang out companions for introvert adopters since they can interact as little or as much as you like!

Espresso: Espressos appreciate a creative adopters service since they love to create themselves. He’d be a good sounding board for your world building ideas and would love to hear about your DnD campaigns. Espressos are quiet bittys and can get overwhelmed easily, it’ll take him a while to get used to your King and Papython, but he will.

Suave: Suaves are flirty dorks, his dorkishness will love the stories you create and the random YouTube videos you’ll watch. You’ll just need to do the same and listen to his hyperfixations. I think he’ll be a good match for your and your current bitty family!

[selkiesbittybonanza]

What would all the bitties do if it's their owner's b day?

Gosh, I have so many types of bittys now these kinds of questions are harder and harder! I’m going to do my best here! ❤️

Throws you a party, whether you want one or not!: Rattler, Puff, Suave, Blue Ribbon

Tries to drop hints about what you’d like for your birthday and try to work to your preferences: Twister, Merlot, Constellation, Ghost & Phantom

Quietly gets you a gift and card: Espresso, Coin, Savvy

Dances and serenades you: Lilac, Glossy, ALL Bonsais, Nebula (surprise!)

[selkiesbittybonanza]

Matchup please? I'm a big loner but want to get out more and struggle because of social anxiety. I'm blunt to a fault and don't emote in the same way most people do which can make me come across as cold or mean sometimes. Once I warm up to someone though I'm pretty loyal and will do whatever I can to help them. I'm a massive nerd though when it comes to art or science and always am picking and dropping hobbies because of it. It's picking something and sticking with it that I struggle with.

Welcome! For you I recommend:

Twister: A Twister would be a good partner if you wanted to tackle your social anxiety; Twisters are large enough to be intimidating so you would have a buffer between you and a crowd. Conversely, Twisters are very empathic and tuned in to their adopters and will be happy to rescue when/if you need it. They’d also try to do their best to keep up with your interests and wouldn’t mind your bluntness, unless you are outright cruel using it.

Suave: Suaves have enough confidence for both of you and will happily coach you through dealing with your anxiety without being super pushy about it. You may have to put up with outrageous flirting from them to “desensitize” you. He’ll be able to keep up with your interests, being a huge science nerd himself. He also enjoys art and may try his hand with it with you!

Constellation: Stellars are big science nerds and will enjoy listening to your current interests! They’re also kind and supportive bittys and would be a good coach to help you through your anxiety. They can also be pretty tough so if they think you are giving up on something too quickly, they’ll let you know! Not to be cruel, but to encourage you to look at a hobby or goal in a new light.

[selkiesbittybonanza]

Uh hi? Please ignore my weirdness, Anyway I was wondering if you could do a matchup for me? I'm considerably short, 4' 10. I'm genderfluid, I love drawing, reading, writing stories, playing video games and music. I tend to be a multi tasker. I don't really like physical affection but if it comes to it, I will offer that kind of affection to someone who needs it. I have about three other bitties, two ghosts and a different kind of Lamia- No idea how I got two ghosts but meh. Well that's it?

Thanks for coming to the shop! We support all kinds of weirdness here so be at ease! Looking at you description my recommendations for you are:

Rattler: Rattlers are high energy and enjoy working on many projects at once! They don’t need a lot of physical affection, however they will need words of praise from you. He’ll love to hear about your stormy and will be impressed with how artistic you are - he enjoys music with a strong beat that he can shake his rattle too!

Coin: Coins are my most independent bittys in my shop, they don’t need a lot of affection but they do like to hang out with their adopters despite trying to deny it! They’ll enjoy your stories and video games, he likes to make snarky comments but his aim isn’t to be cruel. As long as you give him his own space for a nest you’ll have a happy bitty!

Suave: Suaves, like you, are big multi-taskers and like to have several projects on the go; they’ll enjoy collaborating with you and want to assist in any task you have. Suaves tend to be independent so they don’t require a lot of physical affection, just your attention. Suaves are merciless flirts but become very flustered when you take them seriously. This fork will enjoy your video games and art while being impressed by your ability to create worlds and stories within them!

[selkiesbittybonanza]

Hey! I was wondering if I could get a match up here! If this shop is still open.. I’m tend to be sensitive Plus I’m a bit of a nerd in math but not that big nerdy I like looking up and watching Japanese mythologies they interests me a lot especially the kitsunes one I’m also a Scorpio! I like drawing/doodling and chatting online And yes I also like to watch cartoons like Ok Ko and Steven universe plus I,,like,,animals,,

((Thank you so much for your patience!))

You have some very diverse interests! I love it! And I think these bittys will love it even more!:

Nebula: Nebulas love numbers and would love to go over equations with you! They also enjoy hanging out with their adopters while they work and they would be a good buddy while you draw or watch cartoons! They’re very lazy so it would be up to you to bring him around with you, a good excuse for cuddles!

Espresso: Espressos love to draw and would be interested in hearing about mythology and your other interests. Espressos are great listeners and enjoy a calm environment so they’d love to hang out with you while watching cartoons!

Suave: Sauves are engineers and scientists at heart; so they would love to crunch numbers with you! Their inner dorks would also love to hear about Japanese Mythology and would get just as into cartoons as you are! Shaves are one of the most unique bittys at the shop, so if you are interested in a striking companion, a Suave may be for you!

[selkiesbittybonanza]

Would it be alright to ask a Caretaker's opinion regarding compatibility w/a specific line-up of bitties? I'm the peep who asked about Blue Ribbons, and find myself looking at a Suave, now, too. Feel an outside opinion would be best to make sure everyone would get along well (or even want to be part of the fam). I second-guess a lot. :'> Either way, thank you. < 3 Hope your day finds you well!

I think that Blue Ribbons and Suaves have a good chance of getting along. Suaves would be interested in the changes that Ribbons went through and the Ribbons would like the attention the Suaves would give them.

The issue would be if the Suaves started treating the Ribbons like assistants or subjects of their study. It would take a while for the Ribbons to realize what was happening but one they realize they really aren’t being treated like friends they would be very hurt and, in the worst case, violent.

But as long as the Suaves don’t focus their whole scientific attention on the Ribbons that scenario wouldn’t happen. Your attention and suggestions along with other members of your bitty tribe will keep them from focusing too much on each other.

In short, sure! I’d recommend adopting a Suave and Blue Ribbon together!