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Nothing is so painful to the human mind as a great and sudden change.
from Frankenstein by Mary Shelley (1818)
just another eyes doodle
XVI
The Tower
isn't always bad
but it does feel like
a rending
.
the slash and bite
make it difficult
complicated
slippery
to hold myself
together
.
I grab my ribs
my limbs
try to hold my head
on
.
the other side comes
and I pick myself up
.
look around
at this ghastly
oddly charming
new life
smh
.
wtaf was all that
and where do I go
from here
.
Sudden Change by @ut-sudden-changes
I always need to know EXACTLY what I'm doing when I go out. This sort of thing happens when I go on trips w people and I hate it -- Me: where are we going? Them: To [place]. Might do some stuff on the way. Me: WHAT STUFF? Them: Just walk around in town. Or stop and get food. Me: Where?? Just walk around?? How far away is it?? WHERE do we go for food?? How long?? In what order?? How are you ok with not having a plan??
I totally understand this- I get stressed out when I don’t know how long I am going to be away from home, too, because the longer I’m away, the more I have to prepare for. Do I bring a snack, or several? Did I bring enough water? Do I have enough candies in case there are Bad Smells? Is my phone charged enough? Should I bring a charger battery? The longer I’m away from home the more stressed I get because the more assaults there are on my senses, and I need to know ahead of time how long I need to prepare myself for (even if I’m going somewhere I like, like a museum or the woods, I need to prepare for these things).
So if I planned to be away from home for two hours, and the person I’m with suddenly changes the plans and now we’ll be out for five hours, I can absolutely understand why this would be stressful for you. I wish I knew a solution, but I haven’t been able to solve this myself, except that I make sure to ask the person ahead of time “How long will we be out?”, and I stress to them that I need to know the longest they think we might be out, because if we’re home early that’s more okay for me than if we’re out longer than we expected.
You can also just always plan to be out for a long time, making sure to keep an extra phone battery charged and always bring it with you, for example. Being prepared for plans to change can help a little with the stress when they do change, because you can say to yourself “It’s okay if this trip takes longer, because I have everything I need.”
But I completely understand, and totally relate, and I am sorry that you have to deal with other people not getting it and causing you unnecessary stress.
What happened here ? Suddenly, the green disappear and it’s full of rocks ??? Huh ? Old lava ??? Lava flow ??? (?・・)σ
You ever wonder what caused Void Termina to be so full of despair?
Inspiration and quote from to Asteroid B-612, a song about The Little Prince!