"Girl: You have a text message. Boy: Check it for me, babe." I saw a photo a while ago on Facebook with this caption. I felt very sad because me and my S.O used to be like that. He would just let me check his phone anytime. But now, it always seems like he is hiding something from me. Not that I always want to check his phone or anything but I really really feel and notice that he is hiding his phone from me. He used to just place his phone anywhere when we're together. But now, he literally just keeps it inside his bag or inside his pocket. And it bothers me so much. I feel like he's been hiding something from me or that he is expecting some text messages that I'm not supposed to see. It's disappointing that we've come to this point. Everyday, the thought of this issue crushes my heart. I just shrug it off just because I don't want to make a big deal out of my doubts and my fears. I don't want my S.O and I to fight over my trust issues. But then, at the end of the day, no matter how hard I try to ignore how I really feel, I really just couldn't get it off my mind. My mind is fighting over "he's honest so don't worry" and "he's hiding something from you". I can feel that he is truly honest with me. That I am the only one and that he stopped lying to me about the little things. But when I see him acting around weirdly especially with his phone, I just couldn't really help to see some signs that tells me that he's not being honest enough. Out.








