The lifestyle is all about MOMENTUM. Your sexy gatherings with others WON'T happen without the following on your part: INITIATIVE, COMMUNICATION, & VELOCITY. It's especially tough with couples that say that they have "NO EXPECTATIONS" or that they "GO WITH THE FLOW." These couples don't want to be perceived as aggressive or pushy so they adopt a laid back demeanor. Well, that's a recipe for failure. It's especially tough when both parties are "go with the flow" & neither is willing to make the first a move. Compound on top of that... people's self esteem, shyness or maybe their arrogance and pride... and you get the idea. If you want to meet a couple YOU MUST reach out and YOU MUST make a move. A month ago we had several couples courting us & asking to meet up with us... but for one reason or another we never got together. We respond quickly to messages. We express interest & we offer up our available dates. We understand momentum & velocity from the business side of our lives but some couples don't quite get it. Many procrastinate and nothing happens. The more time passes between flirty interactions the less motivated we are to meet them. The new relationship energy goes away & our excitement diminishes. At that point their profile gets pushed to the bottom of the pile. This is also happening to you guys. Without flirty momentum your chats go stale and your meet ups don't happen. We have a podcast episode on this topic coming soon. We'll show you how to be more effective in getting sexy dates by improving your screening process. Stand by for that. We're Isis & Eros, a mid 30's married couple from Los Angeles. We host "The Priory Society Podcast." A show about our naughty adventures in the swinging lifestyle. Come take a listen the link is in our bio. . . . #Podcasters #SwingerPodcast #PodernFamily #OpenMarriage #SwingerAdvice #SwingersLifestyle #Polyamory #Poly #YoungSwingers #NonMonogamy #PodcastersOfInstagram (at Century City, Los Angeles) https://www.instagram.com/p/CNtsFCysFOn/?igshid=19m26lk5n609e