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lilith's role in synastry does not only involve lust and chaos, she's also the mirror, what makes the bond feel magnetic but dont interpret this as something that can always be healthy. it speaks of projection, obsession, struggle with power along with fears and fantasies.
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LILITH PERSON ⬎
⚸ stereotypically can be manipulative towards the house person. could be considered as a "predator" and not in a manner of evilness but more of chasing after the house person, or feeling like they have to chase their feelings from the house person.
♱ can also find the house person and how they interact with the world hypnotic and they likely admire them. on the other hand if poorly aspected it could manifest into the asteroid person finding the house person and how they handle themselves and the world as taboo and annoying.
⚸ sometimes might feel like they have to continously be sexual to catch the ascendant person's attention, lilith person might unintentionally become overly sexual to please the house person, if mercuries are positively aspected, both sides can speak about what makes them comfortable and uncomfortable.
♱ lilith person might be able to open up about their life experience to the house person, both of them could have similar upbringings but the lilith person expands on how negative and dark the world can be. it's a type of dynamic where lilith person feels like the house person is the only person that can understand them and this can create an unhealthy dynamic.
⚸ due to the lilith person being able to express the taboo and the alleged negatives of the world, this can make the house person put them on a pedestal. lilith person could feel worshipped by the house person but it could get really uncomfortable if both are not careful.
♱ the type of overlay where the lilith person might want to trap the house person. if the person is unhinged enough it speaks about possibility of the lilith person trapping house person through pregnancy or even manipulation, isolating them from other people.
⚸ lilith person could like to rage bait the house person, they know how to trigger them, make them jealous. they could be someone who likes the feeling of being able to get underneath their skin.
♱ the lilith person can come off as the house person's dream lover. lilith rules over glamour, even glamour magick but sometimes glamour can ware off but it depends how the lilith person behaves. they could be someone's dark fantasy in a body or someone's darkest nightmare.
⚸ unintentionally, the lilith person makes the house person come off as more charismatic. there'll be this need to impress the lilith person, like being able to match their intensity. though it could be switched, if the lilith person feels like the house person won't accept them as they are, they become someone who they think the house person wants. the type to wear another persons skin if they have to.
♱ this overlay can indicate jealousy as well. the lilith person might perceive the house person as someone who is more socially acceptable, so they could obsess over what makes the house person more special or graceful to other people.
HOUSE PERSON ⬎
⚸ okay not to start off negative, but it could insinuate cat-fish energy via personality. the house person could see the lilith person in a positive light and then it flips but it could also manifest into a circumstance of enemies to lovers/friends.
♱ there could be an intimidating feeling the house person could get from the house person as well, this could also manifest into the lilith person appearing into the house persons dream. house person is very impacted by the planet/asteroid individual.
⚸ though if romantic/sexual connection, the house person is easily turned on by the lilith person. how they move, look or speak could be considered hypnotic to them. the house person if unprepared or naive can become easily played by lilith person.
♱ the house person can easily become influenced by the lilith person. the house person likely wants to impress them because they could be perceived as cool and a rebel. if there is a lack of independence, there could be a dynamic of monkey say, monkey do.
⚸ the house person could be introdcued to divination by the other person. at first could be wary about it but the lilith person might be able to read out points in their lives other people have not recognised that makes them believe.
♱ in a sexual chemistry this dynamic is very intense, this is the type of dynamic where both people open doors in their life they wouldnt experience with other people, unless there's 5H, 8H and 12H synastry but similar to the 12H, both people would unlock etheral yet intense emotions they have held back for a long time. this can also call for emotional sex, peeling and revealing layers that one person might've been ashamed about.
⚸ house person could learn how to be more independent because of the lilith person. they're influenced to take a more claim over their own lives. house person could be used to following traditions and lilith person basically shakes their world.
♱ this overlay is an indicator of having a psychic bond with each other. could feel when each other are anxious, sad, sexual or happy. its a type of dynamic where both people bounce off each other, if there is a lack of indepndence both people can become one, copying and feeding off of each other's behaviours.
⚸ house person could have sexual fantasies of the lilith person. even imagination that is hardcore, this overlay shows that the house person's mind is opened to new ideas and scenarios they have not thought about before, if poorly aspected there could be this uncontrollable urge to have the lilith person to themselves due to how intense the feelings and imaginations can get.
♱ the house person could also become very protective over them, especially if the lilith person has shared her life experience with the house person. it makes them hyperaware of potential dangers for the lilith person, it could also become smothering. but if lilith is poorly intentioned, they could use their victim mentality over the house person. house person can become blinded to the potential dangers the lilith person can bring.
⚸ people could find this dynamic strange or pulling. people could be surprised by the two of them getting together, or just getting along because they could be such opposites, but this reaction could be because outside people might actually "not" know who they actually are, this is what makes the "you and i" bond more prominent.
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