Lilith in 4th house, nessus in 4th house and lilith opposite moon in natal chart can give you the most toxic mother, I know what I'm talking about :')
Plus points if you have synastry with Moon & sun conjunct nessus, mars opposite pluto, mars opposite Saturn, mars in 1st house & mars in 8th house and mars square lilith with a mother who has anger and aggression and some other psychological issues.













