nickname T2MT: I have this friend for almost 10 years now & it seems that we always have the same fight because she doesn't comprehend what she says sometimes & when I try to tell her she throws a bitchfit how I am being so dramatic & the conversation turns into a throwing shade around & ends up dragging her bf who is an asshole into the conversation. Her bf has always been an asshole but she just doesn't get that at all no matter what. She really hurts me sometimes but she is legit my only....
T2MT: friend that I legit have and I will be alone if she walks out or I walk out on her. I just don’t understand why she doesn’t get what I am telling her and she turns it into me being a “bully” and always wanting it my way. All I do is care about her and she doesn’t seem to get that. I don’t know what to do anymore.
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Hey love,This sounds difficult to deal with. Even though your friend may seem like the only person you have, remember that no one is worth your mental health. If your relationship with her is truly one-sided, and you don’t have positive moments together, leaving the friendship may be best for you.Her boyfriend adds another layer to the equation. Try not to compare yourself to him, and be aware that your friend likely sees another side of him. It is important to voice the concerns you have to your friend, and it looks like you’re doing that. You can’t make other people change even if it would be in their best interest. It’s very frustrating, but sometimes people have to make their own mistakes. The fact that she has been being mean to you is an issue and you should tell her how it makes you feel if you have not already. If she continues acting this way however, it may be time to look for other friends, or find someone else to voice your concerns to. You are worthy of having close friends and you will find someone who won’t take you for granted.Good Luck!Xx, Meera
