#tfem confessions

[tfem-confessions]

HI!!

Attention, everyone who follows this blog. I'm Isabel, as you know.

Quite a few of you may have seen the doxxer who is currently at large in the tranandrophobia tag. This is deplorable behavious, and many of the people they are targetting are poc, or otherwise vulnerable.

Please join me in mass-reporting them for this horrible breach of privacy

In cases like this, a first and last name can be reported as contact information, and with enough reports we can get this taken down and let trans bloggers feel safe again, expecially the poc.

[tfem-confessions]

is it weir to feel like a name that was never technically your name is like a dead name for you?

like i used to go by daniel online (safety<3) & its not my name but it is still s name i went by and i was called & idk for me it just feels like one

Nope not weird at all. If the name was used previously and you feel a connection to it, like a deadname thats absolutely valid. If it helps, many asian-americans have both english deadnames (which was never technically their name) and their 'actual' deadnames, so you're not alone!

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I forget people see me as a girl a lot, and then my dad calls me babygirl or his daughter and I'm like . oh yeah .

Awww! That sounds nice (assuming you like it from the tone sorry if my reading is off). Its really sweet when people see you as your chosen gender, and its often like a pleasant surprise when it comes up casually

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I want to be a woman but I don’t want to have to call myself straight. I still,like,guys in a gay way! But I’m not one...

Thats absolutely fine dear <3! In my home country, this was particularly common, and it still is a wide spread identity choice across the globe.

I believe these days the word for it is 'turigirl' if you choose to adopt that, but even then, you absolutely don't have to.

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hate the insistence that to be tfem is to be male.. like fuck me (an agenital person with mixed hormones) i guess . .

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The idea that to be tfem is to be male is inherently transmisogynistic and intersexist and its quite sad that this is used as cis people's introduction to transness. Its just throwing our sisters (Especially intersex ones) under the bus

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intersex transfem girlboy culture is being sad that you feel like you're the only one with this unique experience, but also feeling ashamed for explaining your gender journey & goals

Oh dear. Yeah it sucks how much society hates different and unique experiences. I hope you keep going and have the chance to feel proud <3

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intersex person here- i love this blog! it's so nice being able to see transfemme experiences without being blasted with the Intersexism Beam. followed!

Aww thank you! Love wolfe and other intersex siblings and sisters <3

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transfemme harrassment campaigns are a genuine blight. People will take literally any excuse they can to tear down a trans woman who has managed to claw back any modicum of social capital and it shows.

Yeah, it's honestly really upsetting. People are so eager to destroy a transfem's life

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