#thatchett

[goolfriend-moving]

What I can't believe is that Ghost-Oakes is still talking about the sketches for his kickstarter scam

LOL Yeah

He’s really shooting himself in the foot IMO, but unfortunately his followers haven’t seemed to catch onto the facts that:

1) Again he regularly talks about how he never completed the kickstarter art and now, a year later, is still trying to work on *sketches* lol, which I only re-iterate from anon because it’s very important for my second point that ->

2) YOU CANNOT PLACE AN ORDER FOR BODY PILLOWS WITHOUT HAVING THE ART COMPLETED AND READY FOR YOUR PILLOW DISTRIBUTORS FIRST

Companies that sell body pillows HAVE to have the completed art FIRST so they can actually calculate the costs of the inks and shit

So there is no way for it to be possible for him to lose 6000$ on body pillow orders like he’s trying to claim lol

It’s obvious he’s a really bad liar, especially since we have screenshots proving he used the money for weed, sex toys, and jewlery lol

But he threatens self harm and claims that the people HE ABUSED are his abusers in order to deflect and get people to stop asking about the 6000$ he stole, or his other scams like when he tricked people into thinking he was terminally ill for donation money, or the abuse he puts people through

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Seriously, the “I see right through you and I know exactly what you’re doing” thing is my favorite defense mechanism because you INSTANTLY see how it throws shitbrains off. They either apologize outright or start to stutter. Once you tell them what you know in plain, simple words, the smart ones know there’s no denying it. No one can lie through their teeth like that. Well, almost no one.

Tucker never apologized to me, and he didn’t necessarily deny. The fact that I could see through him distressed him, so therefore I was hurting him by putting my foot down. He changed the subject of the conversation to my behavior, and in that twisted, searing, pathetic light, the person sticking up for themselves becomes the Abuser.

Problem was, I’m a person who takes fucking responsibility. He passed the buck on to me... and I’m where the buck stopped. When I should have given the buck back to him and said, no. You caused this, so YOU fix it.

Something I didn’t know I needed to know then: No matter how mentally ill someone tells you they are, they are not allowed to treat you badly.

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Personally, probably over enthusiastic about sexy talk; I used to be quite unashamed of it because ultimately, everybody has their own things they like, and I wouldn't initiate it without permission. Tucker was still able to make me uncomfortable. To the point of unsolicited dickpics and aggressively insisting things should be put up my butt and tell him about it even though I was very clear with my MANY NOPE's. Extra upsetting, he was dating at the time, and so was I. Still kept happening.

Yikes yikes.

He used to… uhh… look through online fetish storefronts and show me there was a sale on nipple clamps? And little… sex suits, made of yarn? Suggestively?

Like…………???

Buddy…………………….????? Who in this great fuckin’ green world do you think you’re talking to…?..??……..?

I am shrinking down in my chair just TYPING this.

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"fun" fact: the only time you ever rubbed me the wrong way (ever!) was an incidence of you defending tucker. I don't even remember what about, and I didn't even know he was bad news at the time, the reaction just seemed really out of character and aggressive in a way you aren't normally

OHHH MANNN I think it was the bara thing! He called a lady character “bara” or something and someone took offense to it and he came to me showing me anon messages he was getting like “you’re literally human garbage”. OF COURSE I had to come to the defense of such a sweet creature!

Of course we all know by now that he fakes that shit. Apparently there was another incident with Silvermender where he “received” anons telling him to step off and stop hoarding their friendship or something.

And you probably know about the time an “anon” told me they “shipped” me and him. That I confirmed was him.

Just. Don’t trust people who send you anons when they have no reason to. His friend Locky did the same shit to me. I could see that shit, it was embarrassing.

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He would make fun of otherkin and talk to me about how much he hates self-dxers but didn't realize I myself am otherkin. And self diagnosed with bpd. And he must not have realized Im these things because I never shared my personal blog with him (because I was afraid of locky getting her nasty claws on it and harassing me). So yeah. I eventually just. Was done. I'm sorry bro you can't talk shit about my friends for things that I also have/do and then be surprised when I get pissed.

All 100% believable. I’m glad y’all already knew Locky/Cat was bad news and popped the hell out of that situation as soon as you realized something was off. I’ve come to realize that those two are so drawn to each other specifically because they’re the same vintage of Eugh Agh Ick Why.

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I just came across the whole Tucker dealio, holy shit he tried to approach me and told me basically "IT WASN'T ME IT WAS THEm!!" and I believed that because, well, sometimes I give people too much of a benefit of the doubt. Seriously though, I'm glad that made it to the wide wild open so I can avoid stepping on that goddamn landmine.

MMMMMM. No shame, no shame. Seriously. It’s dizzying how convincing a straight face can be, even when you know the truth. I have his writing paraphrased for me whenever possible because I come distressingly fuckin’ close to “oh you poor dear..!” whenever I read more than a paragraph. I have to actively remind myself that “okay wait, but you have 3 testimonies that prove that that illness isn’t even real”. It happens over and over again. I am always gonna be super vulnerable to a good sob story.

 It’s been really weird finding out that some knowledge is just bad knowledge to have. Or that there are people out there who can turn admitting to your faults to them into the worst thing you can possibly do.

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Like, at this point you have to be blind to not get it. He has a pattern. Wants to impress someone, makes up shit about himself, makes up shit about how basically everyone in his life hurt him. That's the Tucker I got. I got fake interests, I got "oh in gonna die by 35 by the way, how tragic", and then when I wasn't eating out if his hand anymore )or sending him mildly embarrassing amounts of money so he could eat, poor thing), he turned around and used me as yet another fake story.

I remember when he was talking mr about one person, I would go"oh, that sucks but I see why they said that" and you could see him just. Ramping up. Coming up with worse stuff. Until he finally hit my button, made me mad on his behalf, and dropped it because it Hurt So Much to think about them. They dispute the worst thing, natch.

These days, I hear he's more or less dropped the "transphobic" line. His big line now is that I was Mean. No shit, Sherlock, but what does that have to do with the price of tea in China. I can show you comments with me publicly calling my best friends names like "fatass" and exchanges where we tell each other to go die in a ditch. People are saying "he's just mad about the way you normally talk". A way that he encouraged. My nickname for him was "Worthless", one he specifically told me he wanted me to keep using and in return he called me "Boss". Because he was grooming me for a god damn BDSM relationship.

I dunno what people who support him think even went down. That he was some harmless disease-ridden puppy and that I knocked on his door and said "You. Me. Friends, now. Or else" and just made myself at home on his couch? I am a VERY hard lady to get to know. He sought me out. Every. Day. EVERY. Day. And worked his ass off keeping conversations going when I had lost interest. He wanted me, he eventually got me, and now he doesn't like that I don't like the way I was treated and lied to.

If even half of what I've been saying is true, sorry. Your friends an asshole. Doesn't make me the bad guy.

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Ahawww! Also, bad choice of words.

Interestingly! Interestingly. I think that’s exactly what was used against me. Brosef told me he had a terminal illness (one we’re all pretty goddamn certain he doesn’t have at all) in our very first conversation, so I was never working on a level playing field. I was always working with an aggressive manipulator, trapped there by politeness, because while I kinda went “oh boy” the first few times, he was astute and rational on seemingly every other subject. Why would he lie? I guess he’s just really unlucky, and that’s why he says he knows all this stuff! He’s had a hard, interesting life! 

Like, he could always go “oh, I just don’t feel so good.... just thinkin’ ‘bout stuff.....” and I’d always say “what’s up” and he’d immediately volunteer the most amazing loads of bullshit. But it taught me that that was normal, to unload all your worries on someone, and we started always knowing each other’s exact mood. One time I admitted I’d been feeling Jealous and he ran with that for the rest of the relationship whenever he needed to tear me down. When I said stuff bothered me, he just found sneakier ways to mention it. He seriously just slowly drove me insane, probably literally convincing himself and a few others that I was horribly mistreating him, while from my perspective I was nicer and more accommodating to him than I was to anyone else, because I legitimately liked the person he presented to me. While never telling me what I was doing wrong when I asked. I asked what to fix and how. You know damn well I did.

And when he did tell me, it was silly shit? “You shoudn’t have answered that anon like that.” I recall one of his friends even said “Don’t make those jokes with me, I know that you use sex to manipulate people.” What the fuck was he saying to people? I don’t even DESIRE sexual relationships or interactions, he’s the one who constantly approaches people saying “what if your favorite character did your favorite thing... with his dick?” like a fucking creep. Like, and I took it as feedback every time! Maybe there is something wrong with me that I don’t know! Gosh, sorry guys, any ideas for how to work on it? No? Okay, I’ll figure it out myself, thanks for telling me! Oh, you have something else...? Ahah... this pile’s getting a little heavy, but sure, gimme another! I CAN TAKE IT.

Holy shit, this is fucking fascinating.

But seriously. Fuck Tucker G, twistedteeth, thatchett, whoever. Fuck that guy. He is nothing even CLOSE to a good person, and anyone who believes him when he says he’s suddenly changed is even more naive than I was.