(🚨It may seem unbearable, but embrace your disasters, close calls, and failures! They will teach you more than any outside source. 🕴Unfortunately most of us need that for validation and vicarious/reflective viewing of our established reality. Through and from other perspectives you will see many of your most closely held truths. Without that you are held within two opposing forces/points that emanate from the core source spark. . 👽🥀. . A way I skate around a lot of the common mental and emotional pitfalls associated with loss and failure is by adjusting my perception a little. Easier said than done I know. 🍄 As soon as a badness happens to me I think immediately “fuhk!! Damage control.. acclimation.. and resolution minded incremental actions are the only thing that matter right this second. And the next main element to follow is the ability to to look at that “negative” fracture as you are that much closer to another “positive” roller coaster spike. I’m anxious when things are good, because I know what’s coming soon. So, learning to switch some brain parts around can get you looking at things that have a connotation of negativity, but really teach you the most and mean you are closer to the good time on the horizon. 🤠🌅 #psychobabblemondaze done snuck up in the middle of the night like a ninja ronin weird wordsmith 👨🏼💻📚) . #Repost @tcviani @go.get.made ・・・ Story is conflict, trouble, chaos, problems...the worst thing you can do to your story tension is to be too nice to your #characters or make things too easy for them. They can have a lovely brief respite once in a while but otherwise, make trouble for them! #thatwritingthing 📝🔮 https://www.instagram.com/p/BzXkjyggDTw/?igshid=lbauxudc2hhq