#the first ask

[wgtior]

Weeeegeeeeeeeee <3

What's your favourite flower? <3

Yellowwww =')

I say sunflowers =D

Other notable mentions would be a daisy, a daffodil, and a myrtle 😊🫶🏼

[foundingfathershatepage]

I’m very confused why you think the talk about Misha being bi was just an unserious meme when he’s literally on camera pretty unambiguously saying he’s bi (“Im all three” referring to what he just said including being bisexual which he brought up on his own completely unprompted) and it was reported as him genuinely coming out. You can’t blame people for taking him at his word and being disappointed when it turns out he’s just been pretending and making gay jokes like he’s one of us for years. They aren’t being unreasonable.

I wasn’t referring to the accidental coming out when I said that I thought it was a meme, I was referring to the, as you put them, “wink wink nudge nudge” jokes he made in the years prior. I literally said that I don’t think he’s 100% innocent because he isn’t, but I accept the apology he made, which as a bisexual person, I have every right to do. He’s done a lot of good for our community, but even good allies fuck up, and he did. That’s it.

[aro-and-ace-topics]

I just started to realize that I am aromatic. I have realized that I am asexual a while ago, and now I feel like I want to cry. This guy has a crush on me, and the way that he explained to me how he liked me in a relationship kind of way made me realize that I have never felt that way about someone before. All I want from people is to just kinda spend time with them. I have never had the desire to kiss someone before, or have sex. It just seems pointless. Am I aromatic? If I am what should I do?

Hi wheatorcactus (what an interesting name).

First of all I wanna say that all the advice I can give you is taken from my own experience and what other people have said. There’s no instruction manual to this stuff, and your experience is totally unique, but I’ll see if I can help you out.

The realization that I was aro was way harder for me to process as well. Romance is so important in everyone’s lives, it feels like you are living in a completely different world, right?

Go ahead and feel upset, annoyed, angry, or sad about stuff. It’s true that being aromantic makes life a ton more difficult and confusing, so take your time getting used to it.

I also feel like I just wanna hang out with everyone and see my friends as often as possible, so when they prioritize other things before me... it can hurt a bit. Patience and communication is super important. I came out to all of my closest friends and I feel like it helps them understand how important they are to me. It’s never gonna be perfect, but it can still be good, you know?

As for whether or not you feel like you fit under the label “aromantic,” there are no requirements for this label, no one will check your credentials, do what feels right for you. Some stuff will make you question whether you are just making it all up, but just remember that no one actually knows anything about aromanticism, right now it’s this hugely broad label, and if it feels right for you, then it is, and you don’t have to doubt it.

As for what to do.... work on your friendships and relationships with the people around you, because those will become more and more important to you as time goes on.

I’m so sorry, this turned out super freaking long, but this is what I want to say to you. I hope you can grow to love this part of yourself.

[qstionableanswers]

Q! It's an honour, I'm a huge fan. But anyways, query: as an omnipotent being with surely better things to do, why have you decided to open up an ask blog?

Ah. How do you do, as my dear capitaine would say (in his terribly British way…)To be plain and simple (which equals understandable for such simple brain as human brain), I must say I was… bored. I have literally too much time on my hands. Or in my hands. Or between them, or behind them, or in front of - well, you get the idea. I hope.You see, I have really seen everything. And Picard is somewhat unsurprising in his manners, though he does amuse me greatly. So, I decided to open an ask blog. It seemed to be something I had not experienced too deeply yet.

[foundingfathershatepage]

Can I offer you Twitter being the Worst Website (all replies from misha’s ‘I’m not bi’ post):

[detectiveagathaau]

Are the movies considered somewhat canonical to your au? If so, I wonder if the plots are swapped. It would be interesting to see a swap pinga or reiko akiba:)

Yes, the movies will be reimagined in the AU, even if it's as non-canon as the original DetCo movies.

However, I still need to properly conceptualize Detective Agatha movies at the moment, but these will come out eventually. And yes, the characters might be swapped for sure, but it'll have new ideas to them.

[manorinthewoods]

what would you do if you have five medium long fries and there was a very hungry rhino on a chandelier who was willing to give you 10 bucks for the five medium long fries but its 7:38 pm and you haven't eaten all day

i don't particularly care for a large quantity of fries, i would sell the fries, and probably take a photo of the rhino, on the chandelier, eating the fries

i'm very practiced at ignoring being hungry so this wouldn't be a problem. i would go home, and probably eat something.