Be careful with what you read on here. It’s easy to start believing that sex has to be wild and that love should look a certain way to be considered ‘perfect,’ that a relationship has to follow some ideal script to be valid…
Every couple is different. Every dynamic is unique. You’ll build yours with your person. And please, don’t romanticize everything you see online.
Love is messy and complicated. It’s beautiful and ugly.
And sex doesn’t have to be performative or kinky to be good. Sometimes it’s slow, sometimes passionate, sometimes wild and violent as hell, sometimes really lame, very quick, or it sends you straight to the ER (trust me on that last one 😂).
Loving someone is one thing, living with someone is another.
And after ten years with your partner, things are different in a thousand ways. But never convince yourself that your relationship isn’t “enough” or “perfect” because of what you read here.
Also, half the people on this app barely fuck, so… 😘