FAQ Remake (cause I can't find my own FAQ :/)
What happened with you and your ex/what happened between you and (insert xer url here)?
I will explain once more why I would be on xer triggers tag list, remind you this is my half of the story and I can’t speak for xem, though part of it is my fault I won’t say I didn’t play a part in it.
Xey are my ex. We’ll get that out of the way right now. We dated for just over a year.
It started out pretty great. It was actually really lovely. But after about a month and a half two months ish it started feeling like I couldn’t do anything with xem. Like I was walking on eggshells trying to make sure xey were happy and keeping my mental health up. It ended up making my mental health suffer a lot.
I kept trying to make the relationship work, though. And I did for 10 more months, where I had to go through many, many su*c*de scares, fearing for xer life, and just overall a lot of mental health stuff with xem, and I tried, I really did. It ended up being too much for me though.
And so I tried breaking up with xem. And that didn’t even last a day before I ended up getting back together with xem. About a week later we came to the agreement that we should actually break up, and so we did.
I needed some time to heal before I could talk to xem, and I did tell xem that. Xe kept trying to talk to me and so I told xem I couldn’t do it. And pretty much stopped talking to xem at all. I’m sure that yes, there was a better way I could’ve handled it than just stopping contact with xem, but there was a better way for xem to deal with it then to have xer alters try to contact me telling me xer life depended on me.
Xey kept trying to contact me after that and so multiple of my friends and my boyfriend (I’m polyamorous we were dating while xey and I were dating don’t come for me) asked xem to stop contacting me. And xey wouldn’t.
So I messaged xem asking xem to please not contact me anymore. And xey finally stopped.
So I guess now mentions of me trigger xem, so I’m on xer trigger list. That’s why nonny.
That's why I'm on someone's trigger list, that's my side of the story, neither of us want anyone to choose a side, we're both trying to get over it.