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[my-writings-and-musings]

One FAQ to Rule Them All...

Because I'm lazy, I'm putting all of my info for all three of my blogs in one place! General rules, resources, and answers to common questions can all be found here with appropriate links!

My Blogs

I currently have three blogs, which are listed below!

My main Transformers blog is here! It's the one I started with and the biggest, if you would like the most comprehensive look at my writing I'd suggest starting here!

My secondary, adult blog is here! I started this one with the intent of doing all kinds of raunchy asks but it evolved into a transformers focused blog just because!

My general, all asks allowed blog is here! This one is more of a catch-all for the other fandoms I enjoy, NSFW posts included. It's the newest so if you'd like to help me out you can give it a follow!

My Requests

So, why am I here? I got started writing requests for free, and I still do them now when my schedule permits! You can pop into my ask box whenever it's open, give me a short synopsis, and I'll write headcanons or short stories for the fandoms and characters you love. Whether you prefer to be wordy or just drop in with the bare details, I'll absolutely make it happen if inspiration hits. I do try to answer everything in my inbox eventually, but I can't guarantee it.

Requests can include as many characters as you'd like, but I always reserve the right to select whichever ones work best for me.

My Commissions

If you've seen my writing and like it enough to want something more tailored to your needs, I can be commissioned to write! I have prices posted here, and if you have any questions at all I'm only one PM away!

Comprehensive information on pricing and the like can be found here!

My Rules

I like to keep things casual so I don't have many rules, but here are the essentials, please message me for any clarification.

1. I expect a basic level of decency from anyone on my page and posts, and reserve the right to block without question. Thankfully this one isn't too hard, just don't be a jerk and we'll get along, but still needs to be posted because some people can never remember to behave!

2. If you ever have any issues with anything I've posted, like wanting a tag to be introduced, notify me through my direct messages. I prefer not discuss publicly.

3. Requests will be answered if and when I have the time and inspiration. There's no problem asking me what I am working on, but repeated inquiring will be ignored. Yes, this means it may never be answered, but unfortunately I work a full time job and just can't dedicate myself to this blog. Maybe someday that will change!

4. This particular blog is largely SFW, bordering on PG-13, so if you have mature asks please visit the other two blogs listed above!!

Common Questions

1. Do I have to pay for requests? Nope! You can leave as many as you want in my inbox, but the caveat is I get to choose which to write and when. If you want to guarantee something is written you have to commission me, and I'm also open to art/fic trades on a small scale.

2. What are prompts? I tend to enjoy applying the same scenario to different characters, as I find it a fantastic writing excercise, so I will develop prompts around specific situations as a kind of shorthand!

3. Will you Roleplay with me? I'm afraid I'm just not much into RP, sorry!

That's all for now! Thank you and have a lovely day!

[babbushka]

Babbushka's FAQ (2022)

Hello everyone! With the new year having approached, I thought it would be best to give my FAQ an update. Please read through if you have any questions, and if something isn't answered here, I'm more than happy to reply to a DM or an ask through the inbox.

!! PLEASE READ MY BLOG DESCRIPTION TO SEE WHEN/IF I AM ACCEPTING PROMPTS!!

Hello! I'm Babbushka, a fanfiction writer inspired by characters played by Adam Driver. This is sometimes referred to as the ADCU (Adam Driver Cinematic Universe) or the ADEU (Adam Driver Extended Universe). You can find my fics in my Masterlist or on my AO3 account. I often post about a Personal AU/Self Ship with Flip Zimmerman, which you can avoid by blocking the tag 'personal au'.

I write reader insert fanfiction for these characters and AUs:

Flip Zimmerman

Clyde Logan

Charlie Barber

Paterson

Paul Sevier

Supreme Leader Kylo Ren (Any ‘canon’ Kylo Ren content is from a Canon Divergent!AU that I have, where Kylo has crushed the Resistance and reigns as Supreme Leader with his Empress (You)). I will NOT write reylo of any kind.

Mob Boss!Kylo Ren

Medieval King!Kylo Ren

Edwardian Millionaire!Kylo Ren

Biker Gang Leader!Kylo Ren

Ancient Emperor!Kylo Ren

Bond Villain!Kylo Ren x 007!Reader

Criminal Prosecutor!Kylo Ren x Defense Attorney!Reader

Solo Triplets AU, created by my dear friend and partner, @solotriplets

Occasional Saturday Night Live characters like Cameron Bissel and the Del Taco VP guy lol

If a character is not listed, it means I do not write fic about them. Please do not ask me to write a character that is not here.

What are your hard NO topics for fanfiction?

I will not write reylo, nor do i want any of my writing to be associated with reylo. Please don’t tag my fics as reylo if you reblog them, and please please please don’t insert Rey into the reader, it just makes me so incredibly uncomfortable and the ship fully disgusts me. I also will not write bendemption, any fics about Ben Solo outside of a Solo Triplet AU, or any fics set in the D/LF canon of TROS.

I will not write heavy angst (such as breakups or divorce between reader and the character, infidelity/cheating where the character is cheating on reader or vice versa, torture or violence against the reader, MCD/reader death, hurt-no-comfort, dub-con, non-con). I also won’t write ddlg/daddy kink, breeding kink, monster aus, or a/b/o.

I’m confused about some of the terms you use and events you have on the blog. What’s sinday? Is it different than a Sleepover? What’s the difference between requests, headcanons, and thots?

Sinday = Occasionally, I will open the inbox for you guys to submit writing requests, if you'd like! This is a day where you can send in as many requests as you'd like (limit one per ask please, so I can keep them all separate!) In 2022, these opportunities will be very far and few in between due to the increase of my work life, but I will always make a pinned announcement post when the time comes!

Sleepover = A chance for us all to hang out! I reblog a bunch of ask lists and ask games, people send in questions, or they send in asking for advice, or telling us about their day, or anything else they’d like to share. We talk about all sorts of things, it’s a great way for us as a community to just hang out and spend an evening together. I often will like put on a face mask and get snacks or something, or have a movie on in the background to help make it feel like we’re all sleeping over at my house and giggling together!

Prompt Submissions (also called Imagines) = These are scenarios that you guys send in to me, that you are asking me to write. It’s usually an idea you guys have, and then I get inspired by that and write out anywhere from like 500-1k words based around the idea. These can be sweet, silly, angsty, or smutty! For example: “what would happen if Flip heard someone catcalling you?”

Headcanon requests = These are topics you guys send in that you’d like for me to go into some detail on in a casual way. It’s not fully fleshed out writing, but is instead a series of bullet points listing how I think the characters would respond to a scenario, or how they feel about a topic. For example: In what ways does Pale show he loves you?

Thots/General Shenanigans = These are just opinions that you guys have that you want to share with the world! It’s not expecting writing from me, it’s just you guys shouting out into the void and us all shouting back! For example: Clyde Logan is so thicc and I want to climb him like a tree.

Do you have a taglist for when you upload new writing?

Yes! Please see the link in my description, which will take you to a google form. You can select which characters you’d like to be notified for, as well as what type of writing (chapter fics/oneshots/prompt fills).

8. Can you help me develop ideas for my fic?

While I am very flattered that you would consider me, I’m going to have to respectfully decline. I spend so much time developing ideas for my own professional writing and my hobby fanfic, that my brain tends to be fried and I’m of no help to anyone lol

9. Will you be my beta author?

Again, while I am very flattered, I will have to decline. Editing takes up most of my own free time, and I’m afraid I’m fried by the time I would be able to edit your stories.

10. Do you do RP threads?

Generally speaking, no.

11. Can I send you writing that I’ve done through the inbox/submissions box for you to post?

No. While I am flattered that you’d like to share writing with me, I really prefer to be tagged in a post you’ve made yourself, rather than posting your writing for you.

12. Do you have a masterlist?

Yes! I have compiled an ultimate masterlist that has links to my individual character masterlist posts. You can find those here, or via the link in my description if you’re on mobile, or via the link on my blog if you’re on desktop!

13. I’m not sure if you’ve written this before but –

Please, please, please check the masterlists before sending in something if you’re unsure. Chances are, I’ve written it and you can read it right away, rather than wait for me to tell you it’s already been posted 6 months ago lol <333

[no-pennies4thoughts]

my FAQ (currently updating!!!):

If you wanna know my viewpoints please click the read more. If you wanna send me an ask please read this to see if it's already answers. Thanks!! (Will be edited as I get new questions asked).

How often do you respond to asks?

I respond as soon as I am able to give an actual genuine response. This can be anywhere from a few minutes to a few days. I always try to wait till I can sit down and really give an in depth reply. So be patient. So long as you're message isn't hate, or have another blogs name in it, I will respond to it. Tho if you're ask isn't lgbt related, I'd suggest sending it to @penny4yathoughts. That's my other blog. This blog is for lgbt discourse specifically.

Why is the split attraction model harmful/why should it NOT be used?

(New summery post) I've answered this a few times in several different ways. Please click one of these (link 1) (link 2) (link 3) (link 4) (link 5) (link 6) (link 7) links to learn more. It's about who you are attracted to. How you experience it isn't a separate identity. By labeling every little part of your attraction you’re doing a lot more harm in the long run. (Here is an ask on demi)

Note: Some of those asks are old so the wording might be odd. But the general idea is still there.

Thoughts on gender dysphoria?

You need some level of gender dysphoria to be trans. Gender euphoria is part of gender dysphoria. And dysphoria has nothing to do with gender roles as it's very much has to do with the physical body and is scientifically backed. That said, it isn't body dysmorphia which I find a lot of detransitioners had, along with problems with gender roles/stereotypes hence why they detransitioned. They deserve help and support just as much as trans people. And yes, being trans needs to be a medical condition because otherwise it costs way to much to transition. I need insurance to help pay for shit. Don't take that away from people who NEED to transition just because you think a medical condition is a horrid terrible thing to have. Which fun fact, it’s not. There is nothing wrong with having a medical condition and being able to say you have one makes it a lot easier to get help.

Transmisogyny vs transphobia is there a difference?

Intersectionality is a heated topic with a lot going on. But I think legally speaking, it's important to define transmisogyny as separate from transphobia. In discrimination cases there are a lot of laws that hurt ONLY transwoman (ex: trans men can still do the thing but not trans woman) so there is a loophole that it's not transphobia OR sexism since trans men and cis woman aren't affected. Thus, legally speaking, having the word transmisogyny is extremely important even though there would be overlap with both transphobia and sexism.

I think similar things apply for TME stuff but I won't lie, that term still confuses me.

Thoughts on nonbinary?

Note: I have some older posts about nb that I have things I do and do not still agree with.

I support it honestly in that, I think everyone has the right to refer to themselves how they wish-- and we have the moral duty to respect and abide by that. That said, I do talk about specific definitions that of nb that are sexist/transphobic (ex: defining it in a way thats clearly just them not feeling confined by societies dumb ideas of what it means to be male/female by reinforncing those gender roles on to everyone else). Any defintion of nb that reinfornces sexist/tranphobic ideas is not okay and while I will respect pronouns and names, I won't respect your reasoning.

Thoughts of trans minors medically transitioning?

Like any medical transition, it's a case by case basis. I don't have the right to tell someone they CANT medically transition. The best options for a trans youth is something that should ONLY be decided by the parents, doctor, and child. It ain't our business.

Thoughts on regulations on medical transitioning?

It should be regulated just like any other med/surgery. As in it's absolutely something insurance should help cover and it's something you talk to your doctor about. It's up to the patient and their doctor(s) on what's best for them. Plain and simple. Hormones are a controlled substance so there are usually more hoops to go through cuz it's a CONTROLED SUBSTANCE. But beyond that I can only really speak on my specific area of the USA where I get my meds and got my surgeries. I know other places are way more heavily regulated to the point where you can't even get help which is obviously NOT good.

Making it more accessible isn't the same as giving it out like candy. I do think medically transitioning should be thought through carefully-- but at the end of the day, it's none of my business and I will only support people and keep my own thoughts to myself. That said, there def is some dangerous info about what you can and can't do that's out there from all sides of the topic thats worth discussing.

Thoughts on mogai?

I haven't seen mogai around lately honestly but maybe thats just me. That said, treating gender or sexuality as a haha fun little game is shitty and insulting. And hyper analysing your gender or sexuality in order to define it into a thousand little boxes is harmful to your personal health and growth.

Bi vs pan debate?

Bi means all. Pansexuality is biphobic in it's very existence. Bisexuality means attraction to all genders and always has.

(Link to ask that has link for more info).

Thoughts on asexuality?

Asexuality is VALID. it means no attraction. I have several posts on this. Feel free to check them out.

Is asexuality LGBT?

I don't care. Like... I have no issue with it being apart of the LGBT community. I have more important things to care about. (here is an ask I got about it)

So what is the issue with asexuality?

The split attraction model is the only thing that I have an issue with.

Thoughts on the q slur?

I don't have a strong opinion. I'm in a 1st world nations in an area where it's not that big of a deal to say. I understand the word has a lot of history and has been used as an umbrella term for a long time because sometimes it was easier to use. However, it is still a loaded word and many people have bad connections to it.

Thoughts on he/him lesbians?

If it's for safety reasons then ok. But the way it's used overall now-a-days is extremely transphobic and lesbophobic. Lesbians are women. And he/him indicates male. It doesn't work. (Here's an ask that goes into more detail).

Is heterophobia real?

Yes it is real. How ever it does not function the same as lgbt phobia. Lgbt phobia works on a systematic and cultural level. Heterophobia only manifests within a toxic part of the lgbt community. (Link to an ask about it here).

What gives you the right to talk about these issues?

I'm a human being. End of story. So I get to research topics and form opinions on them. I was apart of the asexual community for almost 8 years, and have seen first hand what harm the split attraction model can cause to not only myself, but other people I've met. I am apart of the LGBT community and know first hand how gender dysphoria works. I do research on most of the topics I talk about and I will say upfront if I haven't when I comment on things I know little about. Because I believe learning and acknowledging lack of knowledge is a key part of making informed opinions. And anyone is allowed a voice on any issues. Just like anyone is allowed to block and ignore you if you feel like. Hate is never ok no matter the situation. 

Any other blogs?

I have @penny4yathoughts as my other discourse blog that is about a more broad number of topics.

If I have questions can I ask them?

Feel free to send me an ask (anon is on) or PM me to ask questions. civil discussions are fine, but hate is not tolerated. 

Useful shit:

What to expect during top surgery

Link to ask giving advice on getting into discourse

Ask 1 and ask 2 about echo chambers and how online discourse shouldn't be making you upset all the time.

Link to ask discussing questions to ask yourself if you think you might be trans (not a professional. Just things that might be useful to ask yourself).

Link to if you're getting kinda depressed from discourse: ie. Take breaks.

Link about reasons some trans people can come off as really sexist.

The difference between sex repulsion and asexuality.

Tips for dysphoria. (1)

FAQ subject to change/be edited as I decide to add more links, change wording, add questions, etc. Edits will not be pointed out when they happen.

[schrodingers-fyke]

FAQ Remake (cause I can't find my own FAQ :/)

What happened with you and your ex/what happened between you and (insert xer url here)?

I will explain once more why I would be on xer triggers tag list, remind you this is my half of the story and I can’t speak for xem, though part of it is my fault I won’t say I didn’t play a part in it.

Xey are my ex. We’ll get that out of the way right now. We dated for just over a year.

It started out pretty great. It was actually really lovely. But after about a month and a half two months ish it started feeling like I couldn’t do anything with xem. Like I was walking on eggshells trying to make sure xey were happy and keeping my mental health up. It ended up making my mental health suffer a lot.

I kept trying to make the relationship work, though. And I did for 10 more months, where I had to go through many, many su*c*de scares, fearing for xer life, and just overall a lot of mental health stuff with xem, and I tried, I really did. It ended up being too much for me though.

And so I tried breaking up with xem. And that didn’t even last a day before I ended up getting back together with xem. About a week later we came to the agreement that we should actually break up, and so we did.

I needed some time to heal before I could talk to xem, and I did tell xem that. Xe kept trying to talk to me and so I told xem I couldn’t do it. And pretty much stopped talking to xem at all. I’m sure that yes, there was a better way I could’ve handled it than just stopping contact with xem, but there was a better way for xem to deal with it then to have xer alters try to contact me telling me xer life depended on me.

Xey kept trying to contact me after that and so multiple of my friends and my boyfriend (I’m polyamorous we were dating while xey and I were dating don’t come for me) asked xem to stop contacting me. And xey wouldn’t.

So I messaged xem asking xem to please not contact me anymore. And xey finally stopped.

So I guess now mentions of me trigger xem, so I’m on xer trigger list. That’s why nonny.

That's why I'm on someone's trigger list, that's my side of the story, neither of us want anyone to choose a side, we're both trying to get over it.

[lxndonorris]

FAQ: Blog and Writer

1: about me:

 I am a person in my mid-twenties trying to figure out life with social anxiety, depression and a lack of self-esteem. I am trying to get in contact with my own emotions through my writing and I hope that you can find something joyful, happy, arousing or just simply entertaining in it.

2: Did you own blogs before?

In the last five-ish years, I had more then half a dozen blogs, focusing on very different topics, like games, football, more fashiony blogs and simply multifandom blogs. For roughly a year I am trying to write more and more. I started to write fics about my favorite footballers, and now, I am covering a wide selection of things that I love, and would love to write about.

3: Can I get in contact with you via DMs, asks, tagging?

Yes. Of course, if you want to become friends, mutuals or my partner in crime, just reach out. I'm shy at times but a mad lad after talking to me for a few minutes. I will try to answer asks and tagged posts as soon as possible, but please be patient with this one.

4: I like your writing, can I request something?

I am open for requests, even though I will take my prerogative to decline certain requests, that I don’t feel comfortable with or simply, don’t relate to. I won’t write about kids, pregnancy, weddings, abusive behaviour etc.

5: Do you have a masterlist, and who do you write for?

You can find the masterlist here (X), a link to a google document to a list for the people I write for is in the masterlist!

6: Do you only write MxF relationships?

So far, I’ve only written male with female relationships, mostly from the female perspective. Even though, I am fairly open to write MXM, FXF, friendships, partnerships or fandom related stuff etc.

7: What themes do you portray in your imagines?

I am mostly trying to write stories about love, relationships, smutish situations or more explicit smuts. I enjoy writing angsty stuff as well, but it always depends on the topic.

8: Do you only post your writing?

I will try to mainly keep this blog for my writing, but I will reblog/post stuff that I want to have on my blog, pictures, quotes, videos, or other people’s writings as some sort of recommendation.

any other questions? my askbox should be open, for anon/non-anon messages.

[ask-chef-teruteru]

(Hey mod? If it's okay, I wanna know more about TeruTeru and his partners. Like, is he partners who whoever asks? Other ask blogs? I'm curious.)

[Oh, sure thing! His list of partners is here actually! All his partners do so happen to be ones who’ve asked, yes. (The only exception is the Nagito blog that’s on the list. While that blog is on indefinite hiatus, the person who runs it is my partner 🥰 and we still roleplay offsite sometimes.)

The only real stipulation on asking to be his partner (and him accepting, that is) is that it really does need to be someone who’s been around for quite a while, regularly visits, and basically just hits it off with him. Having a blog and a pictured muse may be beneficial, but it isn’t at all a requirement. If there’ve been enough interactions and if he’s been sufficiently “romanced”, he may ask if the person/muse wants to date or vice versa, and that’s really all it takes.

Mod isn’t actually the best at keeping his list of partners updated and doesn’t really want it to go on and on and on forever, so that’s kind of where stipulations come in. He can form crushes pretty quick depending on how things go, so I guess there’s not really any one way to become one or his partners or get him interested. Some kind of gesture is never a bad idea when it comes to asking to be his partner. I wish I could be more specific on how to go about it for those that are curious, but there’s no cookie cutter one way to do it!

If you have any more questions or need further clarification, don’t hesitate to ask!]

[tothe3nd]

Links

Dni

Character + fandom list

Faq

Matchups

Check my blog description to see if requests are open before sending one in! Queries and questions are always welcome!

[authors-haven]

ANNOUNCEMENT: I am now accepting editing commissions!

Hi guys!

Firstly, I apologize for being MIA lately. I'm in the home stretch of my senior year of high school, and things have been busbusybusy. However, a lot of cool things have been going on as well, one of those things being that I set up a PayPal and a Venmo, which means I can now accept editing commissions!

If you have a piece or pieces you would like me to look over, my email is [email protected]. When editing, I will look over:

Syntax/flow (if your story flows well)

Grammar (punctuation, staying within one verb tense, capitalization, etc.)

Word choice/order (if I feel something may sound better if the order of words is rearranged or if one word were switched out for another, I'll make a note of it, and from there you can decide what to do)

General notes (anything in your writing I came across that struck me as needing fixing; for example, if you use an abundance of adverbs, or one of your character's actions feels out of character, or a certain scene feels clunky, etc.)

HOW MUCH WILL I CHARGE?

I will be charging $2 a page. To regulate prices, I will accept all commissions in 12-point Times New Roman font. If your document is not in 12-point Times New Roman font, I will change it to such upon receipt. After I have been paid, you can change it back if you so choose - the regulation is solely for ease and standardization.

WHAT TYPES OF WRITING WILL I BE ACCEPTING COMMISSIONS ON?

I will edit short fiction (nothing longer than 10,000 words), poetry, and short nonfiction (nothing longer than 5,000 words). However, my focus in this endeavor is primarily on fiction. (In addition, keep in mind that poetry is more difficult to edit - I venture to say I will mostly give feedback on poetry rather than edit it, per se.)

HOW SHOULD YOU SEND YOUR DOCUMENT?

Please share your document with me on Google Docs - that platform is easiest for me to comment and make notes on. Email me the doc and make sure my editing abilities are enabled.

WILL I EDIT YOUR DOCUMENT BEFORE I AM PAID?

No, I will not comment on, make notes on, or edit your document before I am paid. It is too easy for someone with intentions of deceiving me to receive my services and then not pay me. However, once you pay me first and I receive your payment, I will begin edits.

HOW SOON WILL YOUR DOC BE EDITED AFTER I AM PAID?

It depends on what I have going on at the moment, but if I haven't returned your doc to you or emailed you that I'm finished editing your doc within one month, feel free to prod me with an email and I'll finish it as soon as possible. If it has not been a month since you've paid me, please be patient.

My PayPal: abigailfd

My Venmo: abigailfd

My email for editing commissions: [email protected]

I'm very excited to have this opportunity! I look forward to doing business with any of you who find it useful.