#theemptybloggercometh

[candycoatedemoboy]

guess which cutie I got from my QPR cutie @theemptybloggercometh for my birthday a couple days ago!!! I love you so much, and thank you so much for spending the day with me!! we really had so much fun that we lost track of time. but every time with you is also so worth it. words cannot describe how much I love you ❤️

[candycoatedemoboy]

I don't think I've genuinely smiled in photos for a while but this was a spectacular feeling 😄✨

many photos were taken at Pride on Saturday with my very good friend Lauren!! aka @theemptybloggercometh !! #thisiswhattranslookslike #shortbikingskeepwinning

[candycoatedemoboy]

@theemptybloggercometh thank you so much for the bottom two pics!! hella trans rights!! i’m so happy to be who i am and that we are friends. it’s not clear in the first pic about deciding to wear a new long black t-shirt over some black leggings, so that’s why the second pic exists. 

i actually bought the t-shirt in the middle two pics the other day and felt, in relation to Beetlejuice being summoned to help Lydia find her mother and be able to have one over on her father, it felt very relevant because yesterday (21st February) was exactly 7 years (21/02/2015) since my only real decent grandparent, my maternal grandfather, died. i would’ve posted yesterday, but my sleeping pattern is awry and i passed out until now on the 22nd. 

things have truly and rapidly changed in those 7 years and in a good way, i look more like my authentic young nonbinary trans boy self (which is why i love the shot of me lying down because it makes me look more like one personally and with my binder, my chest isn’t as visible). i felt it was quite apt that i could get my free cold coffee drink the same day to sit and remember him and other good things.

i love the style i’ve found myself wearing. my own gender euphoric transmasc self.

bless you @theemptybloggercometh 

and i’ll remember you always granddad. love you so much. i may not be your daughter, but i am your hopefully more living almost 27 year old grandson instead.

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[candycoatedemoboy]

Your look amazing in your new profile pic!

AAAAAAA thank you Lauren!! it's honestly so good to hear that because it's felt so important to be able to sort out these changes, even in small ways!! The haircut has done wonders 😊

[candycoatedemoboy]

a shout out to the Christmas gift I got from my QPR & best friend @theemptybloggercometh!!! it made me very happy to receive and i've been meaning to post this since Christmas Day, so i thought i would do it before this year finally came to an end. i love you so very much, and i hope you are taking care of yourself. i hope you had a peaceful Christmas and i wish you a happy new year <3

[candycoatedemoboy]

my friend @theemptybloggercometh was right when she replied to why refined well groomed villains are so sexy is that villains and being well-groomed just tend to go together and very well at that

[candycoatedemoboy]

Green, red, orange, purple, grey and black

oh my GOD if this isn’t me KZJXDCHSKDJCHSKJD thank u so much!!!

[candycoatedemoboy]

11, 13, 29

nice!!!

11. Who’s the best gay icon in your opinion? 

Ooooh, damn…that’d probably be Lil Nas X. He’s got so much style and just…I don’t know. I love seeing him because he’s just doing his own thing. He always looks so cool.

13. Do you wish you could change any pride flags? 

Hmmmm…I’ve never thought about that. I don’t think I would. I mean, I don’t know what I’d change them to. I think I just love their colours and designs so much.

29. Any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves? 

Answered in this post. I don’t know what else I would say, I feel like those are pretty much all my feelings about it right there. Just…there shouldn’t be any pressure to come out or not explore. It’s up to the person what they’re comfortable with doing.