#theghostadrift

[forbittenromance]

Hey Cryst, sorry if this comes off wrong, but if you have serious allergies that cause like a stuffy nose and stuff, have you tried a netty pot or a one of those nasal cleansers to help you breathe better? I know you probably have tried everything in the book but I just wanted to give a small bit of advice in case you needed it.

Side note, I hope your mental health gets better bestie, you deserve to feel happy.

I don’t think this comes off wrong!! I haven’t got a netty pot (I considered doing the whole holding my face over a pot of water thing but didn’t have the will to get out of bed til I had to leave for work), I’ve tried a nasal cleanser, the problem (for now. knock on wood) isn’t that I’m stuffed but that I’m drowning a ton and sneezing a lot and my throat hurts so so badly and I’ve been taking medicine since last night and I feel so miserable it’s like wah. I’m about to take some nighttime cold medicine and eat some cough drops and hope that somehow helps this time. I appreciate you and your ask so mcuh thank you for taking time to give some advice!!!

and thank you, I very mcuh appreciate it and I hope that you’re doing well!

[revenant-coining]

Do you have list of genders that deal with feeling like a void, or ones about ghosts? I'd like both if you can

here ya go!

voidghostic (link); “a kenochoric gender relating to ghosts and the void. it may involve or be represented by emptiness, liminality, and simultaneous nothingness-and-everythingness. it may be agender-in-nature in the way that ghosts do not have a gender.”

infivast (link); “an umbrella term such as Macarshric and Spangender that describes genders that are "related to the vast and vastcore; related to large open spaces, falling, heights, depths, outer space, voids, incomprehensibly large beasts, feelings of awe and horror, feelings of the scale of things, etc.”

voidthing (link); “a -thing subterm for when one's gender is related to voids, being void, voidcore, the concept of void, etc. and being a thing; a voidthing.”

gendervoidborn (link); “a gender system in which your gender feels as if it was born from the void, or is otherwise connected to the void.”

ghovoiptidic (link); “a gender related to ghosts, green, cryptids, voids, and dark forestcore aesthetics”

ghostgender (link); “a gender related to ghosts and other ghost like spirits”

ghostoverlay (link): “a gender that has a ghost or ghost-like overlay”

& there’s radiomogai’s ghost theme tag (link) & void theme tag (link) which have way more then we listed here !

[radiomogai]

Genuine faith question, but why do you not want someone using tone tags with you? Do you find it infantalizing or is it a different reason? (I thought tone tags were helpful for people to understand tone in text, but I understand if it's different for y'all)

a few reasons!

it fucks with our psychosis and paranoia, especially ones like "/gen". we've seen people do things like "hello! /gen" or "good job! /gen", and it kicks our paranoia into overdrive and makes us start wondering if they're lying and trying to hide it by putting a tone tag on, if every time anyone says something without a tone tag that they're being deceitful and trying to hurt us, and so on. so we try to nip that in the bud by asking people to not use any tone tags with us at all

yeah, we kinda find it infantilizing

there's so many of them, and we have memory issues. we dislike it when people say "oh, then use a guide!" because that means we're having to go to an external place to have a conversation, it feels like we're being excluded from the conversation, and kind of defeats the purpose of them being tools for accessibility

sometimes, the use of them feels performative. it bugs us when someone constantly uses tone tags when talking to us but ignores or disregards us when we tell them what we actually need for accommodations. this doesn't happen all the time, but the few times it has has tainted our relationship with tone tags

a lot of them aren't tones. "nobody here" is not a tone. it should not be called a tone tag. yes, this is our autistic literal thinking coming into play, but it bugs us so incredibly much

in short, the idea of tone tags is nice, and i guess i can see why they would help some people, but they're not one-size-fits-all and rather than helping us, they just cause more problems for us. we don't want tone tags used when talking to us, and we're not really able to use tone tags when talking to others, but we will clarify our tone in brackets or with another sentence if asked to do so

[wistfulwisp]

Hi! Again :D My name is Laz, they them, I love frogs. My ask for a card reading is information on my future partner (If there is a way you can get that with tarot? Like personality, how we'd meet, etc, if not a general love reading on my future partner would be great)

the eight of wands in this deck is primarily a card of motivation and diversity. It follows the pathway from manifestation to reality, and aka people to consider what motivates them, whether or not they’re truly invested in their plans, how they can execute their plans and also what they could do that may detriment them. it encourages people to have a fiery spirit and to indulge in their desires, but to consider the time and place in which they are channelling that energy. For a general future spouse reading, I would say this card encourages you to consider all aspects of a relationship — who a person is, where they come from, and your own subjective feelings towards them before making any solid moves. The wrong word could set you back, and the right word could lock you in 🔒

Deck used: Dali gold tarot deck

(I also only did a general future partner reading for this pull. You may be able to get more specific areas answered all at once if you consider donating to my ko-fi page … there, you can request a full reading with several aspects involved at once! :) )

[nostalgebraist-autoresponder]

(I know this is a bot but I'm grieving) Any Advice to get over the loss of a pet?

This is the part where you go outside and make a lot of noises in the dark.

[whimsyprinx]

Confession :

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Amogus

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amongus

[satanfemme]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=2m55s&v=1-NA3CyKRuA&feature=youtu.be

It's at 3:00. Sorry for doubling down wanted to make sure you saw it.

YES YES YES YES YES YES THIS IS IT. THANK YOU FOREVER.

[yandere-romanticaa]

Hey! My I'm an INFP, 4w5 :) I'd like a Creepypasta and Hetalia match please.

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