#thehumorousace

[thehumorousace]

Hey everyone!

My name is Paula. I´m 20 years old, German and Ace

And I´m gonna help out my friend answer questions as good as I can as a mod. It´s so very nice to meet all of you! And it´s such an honor to be able to help fellow a-spec people like myself feel loved and validated, but also to give them advice and comforting words if they need them <3

[thehumorousace]

500 and a new mod tomorrow!

We're gaining quickly! I'm very happy to be a help to any of you. As for the new mod, it was a close call, but I have my decision, and I suspect things will only get better with them around :)

[thehumorousace]

400 FOLLOWERS AND AN IMPORTANT THING

I'm kinda questioning right now. I know I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum, it's just...unclear at the moment. I'm thinking I'm (pan)semisexual, meaning I, for all intents and purposes, experience some form of sexual attraction, but without a desire to act on it, or at least no desire to act on it through sexual intercourse. It's strange and gets even stranger when I realize I have to draw lines between this possible semisexual attraction, and my libido based on kinks, and my gender. I'm trans, I've been identifying for a while as genderfluid, but it's possible that the disconnect I experience between attraction and sex is solely due to my dysphoria, meaning with transition, I could experience sexual attraction. Anyway.

I'm rambling, and nothing is concrete, I just want to tell my (abundant) followers, for the sake of transparency, that the black-and-white definition of asexuality may not fit me anymore. I'd really like your opinions (inbox or reblog and comment) about having a questioning mod. Should I take a hiatus? Delete entirely? It's up to you guys, because if you feel like I'm being appropriative or if my identity being under mental fire is concerning at all to you, let me know. Get that this is a difficult time for me, and I'm totally open to any input or advice from you beautiful people. All of this being said, I'm definitely, at the moment at least, somehow asexually-identified. I will reblog this a few times in the coming weeks to ensure all of my followers hear about it. Thanks again for everything, and happy summer!

-Ren xx

[thehumorousace]

I HIT 200 FOLLOWERSSSS

Oh my god...I don't know what to say this is so crazy. Thank you all so much you make me so happy. Like, I actually feel like I could help people. I just...yeah I never thought this blog would do so well. Thank you all so much for everything I love you guys.