Controversial take of the day?
i think im accidentally already getting into it with my "season 5 breakup was good writing and makes the ending of the show more meaningful" spiel but related to that i dislike when comparisons are drawn between mandy/lip breaking up and sandy/debbie breaking up to ian and mickey.
the thing about lip/mandy and sandy/debbie is they had serious incompatibility problems that reached a natural breaking point & all participants are much more able to grow as people (presumably. since we don't see sandy again 😔) outside of this relationship. no mistake these are all sad things & a loss is a loss even if it's taking you somewhere better. but they were conclusive and results of some level of internal mismatch between two people
so the reason it MEANS something so much when mickey shows up again in s7 is that their ending wasn't an End in the same way as ^^^. it was inconclusive and incomplete on both ends because it was ian just trying to burn his life down because his identity crisis got hijacked by his abusive mother. i'm enchantedddd by the fact that ian was "Lying" when he said he'd wait in s6 (because he did in fact pursue other relationships) but at the same time accidentally really did wait (as in, remained wildly emotionally unavailable on a serious level) because he didn't actually let go. also the comparison to be made here is ian confidently calling mickey his boyfriend to ned after mickey brutally attempted to reject him because it was such a Weird way to act but was also True and correct. to mickey acting like they were all good after ian attempting to brutally reject him in s5
early relationships in shameless also all follow this pattern-> karen/lip ends not because they were done or ever will be done with each other but because karen's brain damage destroys her decision making, emotional, and memory making abilities. steve /fiona ends because not because they were or could be done with each other but because jimmy fucking died and fiona never gets answers. btw the resurrection of jimmysteve is THE #1 most frustrating writing decision the only major thing i'm really inclined to call stupid as fuck. carl/bonnie ends not because they were done with each other or could move on but because bonnie was too afraid of what loving her might do to carl. because she's unreliable and possibly ~dangerous and has nothing.
the incompleteness of these really fuck with every characters ability to form real bonds later. carl does the best but then gets into almost the same deal with anne gonzalez. <- my personal favorite relationship of his. waaah. anyway what. was i fucking talking about.
anyway i don't begrudge people for hurt feelings about love songs in the key of gallagher but i think you haveeee to be willing to evaluate the story as a whole since its finish. & mickey really broke the rules of the show by being too stubborn to let ian live the same losses everyone else does. i think it's kind of immature to hold a grudge about a sad plot point that tired out okay anyway
















