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Just another basic day.
Ugh why is it so hard to concentrate when you're missing people!?
12.05.20
You don't get to decide the level of importance you have in someone's life. You don't get to decide how much someone cares about you. And to be honest, it's not even something that you can get or earn by doing more for them or giving more of yourself to them. Either that concern is there or it's not. And let's be honest, it depends so much more on that person than it does on your actions. Some people naturally have a tendency to care about others, and some don't..You can lay flat on the ground for some people to walk over you and they'll still complain that you're not flat enough!!
But the constant struggle is when you're a kind person or you have a tendency to do things for others and then they take it for granted. And not just that ,they try to exploit you because they know you can't say no. So you have to. You have to try and not care. You have to try and say no even when your heart says yes. The world's a mind game. We're never really gonna accept it but it is. I mean come on, who got anywhere in life by acting according to their feelings?It's always and always will be. You can not just "be who you are" all the time. I mean that's some next level delusional sh*t. Well if you're tendency is to be nice, you can't just keep being nice to a**holes and let them exploit you. You can not always put yourself last. That's silly. Do what you can for others, BE KIND, BUT HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS of them returning the favour. Like just whenever you're doing something for someone, make it clear to your own self that you're not doing it with any expectations. And what this does is that it makes it clearer for your mind to decide and prioritize what you wanna do and what you don't. As a plus point,it makes you more grateful to those who actually do something for you!When you know you're doing pure charity work, then you'll be careful enough to first be selfish to do the work on yourself and your goals and then give back to the world. You can't give from an empty cup. Remember that.
You're holding on to what you never had.
Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.
Jacob M. Braude
Sometimes you gotta stop seeing the good in a person and start seeing the truth in the person..
- Trent Shelton
Fool you once,shame on him.
Fool you twice,shame on you.
If you love someone more than they deserve, you'll be hurt more than you deserve.