#thesnuggliestduckling

[septembersghost]

lady, I’m Tolstoy.

[drriffly]

had a conversation about dean girls (gender neutrel) with a pal of mine on here and came to the conclusion that while some dean girls love dean because he is beautiful (correct) and some dean girls love dean because they can project their trauma and pain onto him (also correct) the one universal experience among all dean girls is that it really is all about learning to love yourself through loving dean winchester. that is all thank you.

[mermaidpiratevampire]

thinking about

Him....

[toptony]

sternziege replied to your post “Question… When answering questions or talking about the Doctor what...”

don't think it would be inaccurate to use He for 1-12 and then She for 13, honestly. I think in this particular case "they" might get confusing, and it's not specifically that the doctor is Gender Neutral or other non-binary, it's just specifically that the gender of the time-based individual you may be referring to has changed.

meanwhileinpetesworld replied to your post “Question… When answering questions or talking about the Doctor what...”

Ive been using He/Him for 1-12 and both They/Their & She/Her for 13. I’m curious as to what everyone else uses as well

thesnuggliestduckling replied to your post “Question… When answering questions or talking about the Doctor what...”

I’ve been using he/him for 1-12, she/her for 13, and they/them for generalizations across the board. Or you can play the Avoid-the-Pronouns game. I don’t think they/them is any more confusing than having more than one character go by she/her, plus it’s something that I’m sure most NB people would be thrilled to have more normalized.

Hmmm okay. Thanks for your opinions. I guess I’ll start using he/she for the proper incarnations and just use ‘they’ when talking about the Doctor as a whole or if a specific one wasn’t identified. 😃

[thelaurenshippen]

Sorry if this has already been asked, but is Chloe aromantic?

She is not - she’s panromantic.

[thelaurenshippen]

My 26th birthday is this week too! I'm on the 13th; when is yours?

Ahh happy almost birthday! Mine is the 16th :) 

[regardinghollanov]

I had Covid in November 2020 (yeah, it was right after the 5th; Destiel gave me Covid), and Coke still tastes wrong and chemical-y to me. There are some other things that taste or smell different, but that’s the biggest bother.

Oh my god, that's a lot of trauma for one week! But damn! 2 years later and still?! I hate this so fucking much. Now i wonder what other drinks/food taste weird to me and I know it's gonna be annoying.

[septembersghost]

My darling, you are the last person to deserve this nonsense. You are always full of light and gentleness. You’re such a kind soul. I wish I were able to give you a hug in person, but I’ll have to settle for my heart going out to you as you fight this negativity. My thoughts are with you, love. Keep your chin up! 💜

Brandi 💕💕💕 you know, as utterly draining and unsettling as today was in many respects, the enormity of gratitude I feel towards the thoughtful people here outweighs it. I often feel quite invisible curled up in my sensitive little corner just because of my day-to-day circumstances, and another friend tried to tell me recently that wasn't true, but it's hard to believe those reassurances at times. you all make me feel like I do have a presence and I can't tell you how I treasure that. I'm so glad you found me here after the passing of years. thank you for your sweet thoughtfulness, it does ease my heart, and I'm hugging you back across the miles!