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[widowsandorphans-blog]

thewildernessunderground replied to your post: Got my nose pierced like Read More →

You’re gorgeous !! and your piercing is class looking ^^

chandr-a said:

you look absolutely beutiful!!

Aw, you are both so very lovely! Thank you! xxx

[slaughteringlamb]

yeah sorry about that, after i sent that it was like its gonna sound aggressive but i sent the anon asking what's your view on nounself pronouns ?

That's alright, don't apologise! I'm just a bit wary of questions like this from anons when there's nothing to prompt them cause it always sounds a bit like trolls looking to start trouble.

Personally, I'm a cis, straight, white female so when it comes to issues pertaining to gender, sexual orientation or race that I'm not exactly affected by, I just do my best to stay as informed as possible and always differ to the opinions of people that are actually affected by the issue in question. Meaning.. If someone that is actually trans, for example, came up to me and said hey, you were saying this or that and I didn't like it so please stop I would immediately respect their wishes, apologise and then just simply ask for what would be the more correct thing for me to say instead, you know? 

When it comes to this sort of issue, where I'm not the one affected and it's not my gender or sexuality or race being discussed, my own personal view is just not relevant enough to matter over that of those that actually feel all of this in the skin.

Regarding nounself pronouns... here's the thing, in my own opinion which, like I said, it's easily changed if found lacking, pronouns are meant to take the place of nouns when referring to someone and commonly we apply thing based on gender. With pronouns like the ones you gave earlier, "fae/faer/faers", the gender issue is never even raised. You can identify as being fae, like in this case, but that in no way affects the use of the he or she pronouns since I think you can be a male or female fae? So I don't really think that identifying as something other than human should be equated to identifying with an actual gender that is different than your own. 

Not only do these pronouns make language kinda confusing, specially for someone that isn't a native (like myself, even though I'm pretty comfortable with english) but I also kinda think that they're an attempt to butt in on an actual issue that exists with gender neutral/non-binary/agender/intersexed person/trans person in transition/etc, where gender IS the actual issue at hand. 

But, you know, I don't know much of the otherkin community so.. feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

In the end, personally, I don't really use nounself pronouns and I think they're kinda silly because they don't really make much sense linguistically. 

[holocrone]

Carnation, Locust, Daffodil + Queen Anne's Lace ^^

carnation -- if I handed you a concert ticket right now, who would you want to be the performer?

mumford and sons *u*

locust -- what was your favorite book as a child?

the night of wishes!!! ('der wunschpunsch' in german)

daffodil -- what's the most thoughtful present you've ever received?

oh boy... i think from my mum, a necklace with the demon protection symbol from supernatural? it really meant a lot to me

queen anne's lace -- would you rather carve pumpkins or wrap presents?

wrapping presents is my passion tbh

[holocrone]

hey, so i know i might have asked you this before and please humor me (is that correct way to use that phrase idk sorry !) if i have but could you possibly answer these few questions ? what's your fav colour(s), fav animal(s), food(s), movie(s), tv show(s), drink(s) and things that make you smile (i think i know a few of the answers of don't really trust my memory atm so better to double check right ?) love you lots ♥

hey omg i'm sorry i took so long to answer `o´

favourite colours: blue, teal/petrol, green

favourite animals: lions, cats, deer, polar bears

foods: anything with pasta, burgers

tv shows: (this changes all the time haha) band of brothers/the pacific, breaking bad, the killing, brooklyn nine nine, generation war

drinks: orange juice and iced tea

things that make me smile: my friends being happy, my cat purring, snow, the ocean, driving my car, the smell of pine, finishing a book, flowers and organizing things

[holocrone]

the sea and hope and light and idk lovely smells in general but not all at once, b/c that would be over whelming [and your blog is perfectly arranged therefore it is only logical to assume if it smelled the smell would be pleasant as well] and strong enough to get lost in but not choke on and idk if this is even answering the brief but so what ^^ ♥

wow!!!!! *u* thank you so much darling ♥

[holocrone]

1,11,42,5 & 7 ^^

A movie you’ve seen most times in cinema.

probably skyfall? i think i went to see it 3 times!

Favorite quote(s).

'Ernest Hemingway once wrote, "The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.' -- se7en

A movie that made you go ‘wtf was that’.

let me think... hard candy? oh and nightmare on elm street, because it was so bad.

Top 5 films of your favorite actor and actress.

oh gosh! jake gyllenhaal: prisoners, brokeback mountain, zodiac, brothers and donnie darko

amy adams: the master, her, doubt, julie & julia and either enchanted or night at the museum

A movie storyline you wish you had actually lived.

ummm... fuck?? i don't know (∩︵∩)

[holocrone]

top five things that make you smile, actors and places :)

friends

summer rain

your letters

brooklyn 99

thinking about sam and dean kissing

actors.... (as in acting abilities?)

heath ledger

joaquin phoenix

amy adams

jake gyllenhaal

kevin spacey

places

canada (i've never been but yeah it's lovely)

london

my room

the sea

san francisco

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