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I can give it to anon abt Giovanni bc the man has an italian name and italian men go all out with romance.

But don’t marry an italian man thats a bad idea just date them and exploit them for expensive gifts

#FAR OUT!#this is advice #everyone who likes dudes should date an italian dude so they can have cool things and then dump him RIGHT as things get serious #its foolproof okay i swear

I desperately need people to stop writing disabled readers that neglect their health

I’m sorry chat, this is straight YAP, and I’m almost afraid to post.

Like, not only is it exhaustingly overdone, but the average disabled person isn’t gonna put such a heavy emphasis on their pride/strength that it hurts them, and much less if it could kill them.

Minimal yap under the cut, I just wanted to shorten the post.

#this isn’t criticism #this is advice #the trope can work for temporary or fresh disabilities #like a character broke their leg and is in denial about needing help #and it MIGHT work with certain mental health issues #but it’s not NEARLY as effective for other disabilities #especially if they’ve been disabled for a while #it gets to a point where self care becomes automatic #like it’s not a nuisance anymore it’s routine #I won’t even say I HATE the trope because it CAN be good #like disabled people CAN forget to check on themselves sometimes and I think that’s a good use of the trope #but intentionally ignoring the signs of a flare up????#refusing to admit when you need to take a minute??????#putting other people at risk because you’re too stubborn to take the proper steps for your own health????????#boring. overdone. tiring. lowkey just SELFISH.#I just want more stories about disabled people that aren’t miserable #like sure there are plenty of negatives when it comes to being handicapped #and I think it’s important to write about the struggle of being disabled #but I also KNOW that the negativity and struggle doesn’t outweigh the beauty and joy of a life well lived #there’s plenty of obstacles in everyone’s lives #and especially in a disabled person’s life #but as much as we have stormy days #we also get to see the sunshine and rainbows #that was corny as hell but that’s okay #thank you for coming to my TEDtalk🔥🔥🔥#TLDR; pls write happy healthy well-adjusted disabled people experiencing the world like any other person #because that’s exactly what we do

It’s important to be aware of what is happening in the world, it is also important (more so) to care for your nervous system.

It’s okay to take a break from the news.. in fact it should be encouraged these days. Just sayin’ 🖤

#from the void #this is advice #✌🏼#psa #current events #~spiral #original content

i hate my ex bf. how do i get back at him for hurting me...

cut off his nipples

#or use the old trick and shove a bloody tampon up his nose #advice #yeah #this is advice

I've had tumblr for at least 2 years now and I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I only have 130 followers, most of which are just friends. Any advice? It's really hampering my self-esteem and I feel like just deleting my blog

I’m just going to make this message public for certain reasons - first off, I don’t think you should maintain a blog to gain followers. I personally reblog and post what I like… I feel like when people start blogging for entirely for their follower count, it takes away from what Tumblr should be about… In my opinion at least. So don’t worry about that number so much, and reblog all that you like!

#this is advice #because i get these messages every so often #and I want people to know that tumblr isn't all about that little number on the side #panemforeverlark #asks #plus your blog is lovely

UK emetophobes

Advert for some film called Over 21 or something like that (from the makers of Hangover, blah blah) has a moment in it you don't want to see. Just to let you know.

I seriously don't get why they put things like that in films, never mind in the goddamn adverts. I hope that this helps at least one person out there.

#emetophobia #just to let you know #this is advice

Advice From Loki-mun!

So maybe it is the time of year, but lately I have been noticing large amounts of sadness from the role playing community, which is never ever a good thing!

A common issue that is taking a toll on others is the speediness of replys and the feeling of being abandoned by your favorite role player. So Ima try and help out here.

First off a RolePlaying is for fun, and it is not a job. So always bee aware that sometimes life gets in the way! It happens to the best of us. A big issue is either being overwhelmed by replies, or upset by the lack of it.

99.9% of the time, it is not your fault.

It's the way the muse flows with responses. Sometimes I feel the need to respond to all the things, and others I want to focus on a simple thread with more close knitt Rp-ers.

If this is the case, which it often is, give it a day or two. Don't see a reply? Send them an ask!

Dont stay silent. No one will hear you.

It is literally the worst thing to do and will only hurt you more in the end. Role playing is all about communication both ic and ooc, and neither side should ever feel shy or scared to adress a subject with the other.

In the case of lack of responses it is good for the in waiting partner to send the occasional message to see whats up, make sure they saw it and what not. Not the key word is occasional here. Some people are more accepting to frequent asks than others. Two- to Three days is the standered waiting period, but it varres between people.

And for the one with gross amounts of responses, or only in the grove for one thing, try and branch out ooc! Everyone feels insecure, so let them know from a public message saying 'Hey guys I saw the responses and I want to do them all, but am lacking in muse right now!' and be sure to keep this updated if this mood continues for long periods of time. Just to let people know that you aren't ignoring them, just have writers block.

We are here to love! Remember that!

And to those who are cutting off of ignoring a partner for whatever reason, whether it's because you no longer feel the muse for the ship and are too shy to tell them, or whatever reasons their may be;

Don't.

No one gets anywhere in life by being silent. It hurts you for keeping it in, and it hurts them for not knowing what is wrong. You can't expect anyone to fix something they don't know is broken.

Now this is no excuse to be a bitch and go all mondo hate on them, not at all! That is never okay. This is a time for us to treat the conversation like mature adults, as if we are anylizing a feelsy moment in our favorite fandom (we all do it, so I know their is maturity in you somewhere) and talk these issues out person to person. That is the only way to work things out.

But most importantly, if Role Playing become hazardous on your emotions or health, then stop.

Just stop.

Nothing is worth a mental break down for a reply. Take time to breath and walk away. This is meant to be fun! Not a job.

Ending Note: You are never going to get ice cream from the ice cream truck by sitting silently from your porch and watching it go by.

Unless they are to come out of the ice cream truck and invite you in, which is when you call 911 because it is probably a pedophile.

Have a magical day.

~Loki Munn

#ooc #major rant #this is ADVICE #not hate ot anything else #just something I see and want to adress #i wanted to speak up and say something #so no one has to suffer in silence