#this is antixeninity

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when my mother said "its the feminist in me. i dont want to refer to you as a fucking piano, youre not an object." i cant help but laugh at what a bullshit take that is

this is antixeninity (and also probably alterhumisia; @this-is-alterhumisia if you would like to add to this, feel free!). we are what we say we are.

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anti-xenitiy is how ive seen people acting like xenogenders are a thing that disappeared after quarantine. im still pinkgender, thanks.

This is antixeninity. My gender is still Minecraft. Always has been and always will be. That will never be changing.

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People saying neo pronouns are dumb and they refuse to use them. Saw a video where a person said "what if they went missing and you go into a documentary, how embarrassing would it be to say 'starself'." And honestly it just fucking annoyed me because why do you care?! You should respect their pronouns!

This is antixeninity. "ohhh it's embarrassing" SHUT UP. SHUT UP. STOP MISGENDERING PEOPLE. I don't give a flying fuck if you think it's embarrassing, RESPECT PEOPLE'S PRONOUNS. (Not at you, anon.)

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Seeing people mock their early 2020s phase but all they do is make fun of neopronouns and xenogenders. Like okay cool for you that you didn't end up identifying as that long-term ig but now constantly seeing the concept of triggers and xenogenders being synonymous with ""chronically online"" people is exhausting

This is antixeninity and ableism. Sorry I'm xenic and can't leave the house for anything more than work for weeks at a time because of chronic fatigue (not at you anon).

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”If you ever come out as a “mogai identity” (read: xenogender) people probably won’t accept you and that will really hurt. So you probably shouldn’t ever identify as that. You’ll just be hurting nonbinary people anyway and making people think it’s a choice. Anyway, you’ll be healthier and happier if you avoid that community.”

Please tell me you realize that you are creating the problem that you use to justify your argument.

This is antixeninity. This argument is genuinely exhausting. Do people not realize that the same shit has been said about enben? About trans people in general?

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there was a gay and trans guy at my school who I thought was really cool until I mentioned xenogenders to him, he immediately went on a rant on how they were all just a bunch of jokes and how he was around on the internet when they were made like I’m not a year younger than him…he was also expressly against alterhumans. I’m very sad that people at our school all love him and treat him like the pinnacle of acceptance.

this is antixeninity and alterhumisia. facing antixeninity from other queer people, and especially other trans people, is always painful. im so sorry anon. @this-is-alterhumisia

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i am openly out as transgender in my school and home and work. this is rare, as i live in a small city famous for our confederate population :(

i have never felt comfortable to use my neopronouns and xenogender identity outside of the internet. however, i was recently able to attend a transgender youth support group. it was freeing. we did an AA style “say your name and pronouns and your experience” thing.

excited, i said my pronouns as they are. he/him and xe/xyr. and… well i was granted by someone saying “thats not a real pronoun” and im “fake”. i expected someone to tell them off, but i was just told to sit down. the authority let it happen, all for a pronoun.

in my transgender support group.

i understand not understanding the pronouns, and i know its not going to be used by everyone, certainly not in my little close-minded home. but its heartbreaking to be told by people like me that im just too different the first time im comfortable with being open.

this is antixeninity. i'm so, so sorry anon. that must have been absolutely crushing. you deserve so much better. your pronouns are real, valid, and you deserve to be respected. i hope you find people who do respect you. you shouldn't have to understand or accept that people won't respect your pronouns.

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The fact that I once upon a time felt the need to put after saying my pronouns "You don't have to use them if it makes you uncomfortable, you can just use any" when I didn't like any other pronoun besides the one I had put before!!! :[

This is antixeninity. We should never feel the need to compromise any part of who we are just because others may not like it (and I'm glad you no longer do, anon.)