"uses xenogenders" is such a stupid phrase. no one says "uses a male gender" to refer to trans men, or "uses a feminine gender" to refer to transfems, or "uses nonbinary genders" to refer to enben, or whatever else. why are we saying "do you use xenogenders?" like theyre an accessory instead of actual genders. why are we expected to have a more typical gender and then "use xenogenders" alongside it.













