like, there's a lot of characters i can see engaging in a toxic, or manipulative relationships in rt. or one born from, and primarily revolves around hate, or even dislike. this can be trauma, or that they enjoy it, or through a series of bad choices.
her whole romance is based around stepping to her rhythm, understanding her feelings, a deep, all encompassing soul connection, valuing individual lives, and implicit, earned trust. there is a reason why her relationship with the rogue trader is strengthened after they display trust, and care for her, and doesn't manipulate, or sway, or attempt to break her to be more appealing.