The fandom used to strike me as "omg bffls" but that was before I got to know everyone and their flaws. That some of us are bitches. That some of us have issues. that some use others as a crutch, even if they don't mean to. but why should that mean "bullshit"? I call it "human", "imperfect" amd "growing up". Ending friendships because they've become toxic, or leaving Plurk because they have a better support system irl. or having to refuse a request from someone because granting said request would render a previous mutual arrangement null and void. There are some things we have to live with, true. sometimes, we have to grin and bear it because no one hears us. but sometimes, the friendships you find here are so invaluable. and they provide you with laughter amd comfort. And if the person you want isn't there? SCREW THEM. LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE. That person might or might not be losing sleep over you but you should learn not to care.
Judith
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