4, 19, 22, 45 & 46!
4.What’s your religion? I usually tell people I’m agnostic to save time explaining everything. I don’t really have a religion that I follow but I have a set of beliefs that runs along the lines of Buddhism, Wicca, neo-druidism, and Gnosticism but does not necessarily tie me to any of those.
19.The relationship between you and the person you last texted? My mom
22.Tried to commit suicide? I’ve thought about it honestly, because I have a severe form of dysthymia but honestly the only reason I stick around is because I have people who love me and it would really affect them if I no longer existed and my cats would miss me.
45.How many relationships have you had? I would prefer to say zero, but that would be a lie. But ones that actually counted is just one. It was dumb. Just a heads up - if you’re asexual and you go out with a straight person it’s usually not gonna work because they’re gonna want more than you’re willing to give if you catch my drift.
46.How can I win your heart?
DO: Waste entire weekends with me doing absolutely nothing. Bring me soy cocoa and chai just because you were thinking of me. Shower me in blankets so we can cuddle and watch attack on titan and snuggle with cats. Read me adorable fanfiction aloud like a bedtime story. Stay up until the midst of the night stargazing and talking about astrology and existential topics. Respect my life choices and treat me as an equal. Help keep me on track while not treating my like I’m 5 years old, I may have ADHD and act childish but I am certainly not. Love me for who I am. Give me the support I ask for. Be a loyal friend.
DO NOT: Chastise me for a habitual practice that I use to soothe my anxiety (i.e. cracking my fingers, my slight tic, bobbing my leg while sitting, etc). Treat me like I am dumb. Accuse me for something I didn’t do or accuse me that I am lying. Smother me. Ask me a million questions, especially when I’m doing something that requires focus and even more so if the questions require critical thought - I become overwhelmed easily. Tell me my mental issues are “all in my head” or “not real”.
NEVER: Compare me with my mother. Call me a hypochondriac. Tell me to “lighten up” or “get over it”.
