Fantasy romance vs. romantic fantasy vs. romantasy
(according to me a mere English lit major)
Fantasy romance
The main genre is romance, the fantasy element is secondary. The plot revolves around something mainly seen in romance novels such as fake dating, forced proximity, etc. but it probably wouldn’t be too hard to take the fantasy elements out. The main reason you pick up the book is for the romance. It’s regular rivals to lovers but they happen to be witches. It’s the one bed trope but they’re vampires and it’s a coffin instead.
Examples:
Bride by Ali Hazelwood
Reason: While the characters would have a harder time meeting without the fantasy element (or mating, for that matter), it’s still possible. The main plot is the romance. Everything else comes secondary.
A Lesson in Thorns by Sierra Simone
Reason: the fantasy is barely present in this first book, but even in the main series, we mainly read to learn more about Proserpina, Auden, and Saint’s relationships. Why they fight, why they hate, why they love each other in their own fucked up way (cough cough Auden). If Thornchapel weren’t magical, everything would stay the same.
Twilight by Stephanie Meyer
Reason: the first good chunk of the book is romance. This isn’t the best example, but people don’t read Twilight for the inner vampire politics. They read it for the will-they/won’t-they of Bella and Edward’s relationship.
Romantic fantasy
These are fantasy books with a rather nice romantic subplot, but it’s very much a subplot. It’s not doing any of the heavy lifting. It may motivate a character’s actions, but the plot doesn’t hinge on the romance. The plot more revolves around whatever large fantasy issue is happening, usually world-changing. But there’s a lil bit of romance sprinkled in as a treat.
Examples:
The Spirit Bares Its Teeth by Andrew Joseph White
Reason: The main plot revolves around Silas and the school, figuring out the mystery. Daphne’s existence is primarily to affirm Silas’s and to rescue him during one moment. They have my favorite romance in any book ever, but it truly is a subplot.
One Dark Window by Rachel Gillig
Reason: While I love Elspeth and Ravyn, their romance doesn’t do much for the plot until the second book. Everything, for the most part, continues as it should, without the romance. If you wrote out the romance, not much would change.
Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao
Reason: While a big selling point for this book is its unique love triangle, the plot doesn’t change much if the main three were friends instead of lovers. The plot doesn’t hinge on them being lovers until the second book, or until the very end of this one, depending how you look at it. They do have an absolutely stellar throuple, though.
Romantasy
To qualify as a romantasy novel, a book must balance the fantasy and romance plots with near equal precision and entwine them so that they become inseparable. If you get rid of the romance, then the third act crumbles entirely. Or if you remove the fantasy then the romance dies. This is a lot trickier to do which is why a lot of romantasy books feel similar to each other or feel like they have cheap quality.
Examples:
Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros
Reason: Without the magical war, there’s no reason for Violet and Xaden to be enemies. They wouldn’t have fallen for each other without magic in varying capacities. But also the actions they take are completely dependent on their love for/obsession with one another, sometimes to the narrative’s detriment.
Peter Darling by Austin Chant
Reason: Peter and James would never have met without Neverland, but they never could have escaped Neverland without each other. Their romance affects the fate of the island, literally. Peter’s heartbreak freezes the surrounding ocean and keeps James trapped on Neverland, and it’s their love for each other that melts the ice and allows them to go home with each other.
Grandmaster of Demonic Cultivation by Mo Xiang Tong Xiu
Reason: Wei Ying and Lan Zhan would never have met without cultivation. They hunt demons together, fight in wars, learn magic, it’s all fantasy. And Wei Ying coming back to life through necromancy is what allows their relationship to come to fruition. Without the demonic cultivation, Lan Zhan never would have been able to be with Wei Ying. But without their romance, a lot of the plot wouldn’t exist. Lan Zhan stays by Wei Ying’s side no matter what, and his choices because of that change the outcome of both plots. But additionally, most people go to it for a mix of the fantasy plot and the romance. Xianxia does as xianxia do.













