I read your dni list and I believe you’re mistaken about bi gays. We’re not saying we’re both or neither, we’re saying we lean more to one side than the other. It’s just a label that people use, and it’s not hurting anyone. You, on the other hand, are hurting people by dictating what labels people are allowed to use in order to enjoy your blog, and that’s not okay. Please consider opening your mind a little.
No. Using “bi lesbian” or “bi gay” because you lean toward one gender more than the other is biphobic because bisexuality does NOT have to be a 50/50 split, and, as I explained in my FAQ, it’s lesbophobic and homophobic because it’s saying that lesbians can like men and gay men can like women. It IS harmful because because it feeds into stereotypes about lesbians and gay men “having exceptions” and it’s saying that they’re aren’t really who they say they are. Please consider LISTENING to lesbians, gays, and bi people when we say something is harmful.
I have boundaries, so, I’m sorry if that upsets you, but I think you can live with not interacting with a tumblr blog.
I will not answer any further asks about this.