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RAPIST DOWN!!!!

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So, I’ve temporarily turned off replies to my posts, if you want to be batshit about child alters, fuck off.

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do you think minors are stupid . thats what it sounds like

Yes. Like holy crap absolutely man yes. When I was sixteen, my bio dad was teaching me how to drive and told me to go into a lane across from us. Instead of going into the lane I was supposed to, I got confused by his directions and went into an active traffic flow across from us. We were very lucky fast and furious here didn't get us into an accident. You expect someone to know how to navigate a mortgage?? /genq /hj

Okay, joking aside. I know this because I was a minor and I did stupid shit as a minor. Everyone does stupid shit as kids, it comes free with you being a kid and being born not knowing things. But that's the thing about being a child, you don't understand things. And when you do, you don't often understand the full complexity of it or the meaning of it. Your brain is growing and you don't understand why the world is changing, why your parents are aging. The younger you are, the less.

I often notice on the predator's end that they tend to get frustrated when their "partner" doesn't act like an adult or doesn't act mature. They tend to adultify them and play up their level of cognitive ability when their partner just. Doesn't have it. Both of the predators who took advantage of me knew this. My 18 year old "partner" would lay out all his emotional burdens on me, things I often didn't understand. And then he'd get mad me when I didn't know that thing that was making him mad ever existed or was a thing or didn't do something he liked which, I didn't even know he didn't like because he didn't bother with his boundaries and I didn't even know boundaries exist. I was 15. How the fuck did he expect me to know xyz? Same with my other abuser. ^^^^ I also "Consented" to being in that relationship btw. I knew he was an adult and was okay with it because I thought he loved me. All off my abusers (and I'm not even talking about my groomers), treated me like an adult as a kid, like my autistic behaviors was me intentionally bothering them, like I was purposefully manipulating people around me for attention when I cried due to overstimulation and stress at school. I fucking paid for it in the loss of my childhood. I was only a child when they wanted me to be.

One of the biggest things about S/A and abusive relationships is the power dynamic. To a predator, a minor is a partner they can easily control and they often weaponize their lack of experience and knowledge against them to get whatever they hell they want. At the same damn time. And they get frustrated when their partner is a child. When they're being a child. They are only a child when they want them to be. If anything, predators are the stupid ones for thinking that their child partner is an adult in child clothing. Any prospective predators need to let kids be kids and find someone in their own damn age bracket who can actually competently deal with their burdens. This isn't to imply children aren't complete dolts with cotton for brains. I was also the "gifted" kid for awhile. There are savant children, kids who pay rent, there's kids who raise their own siblings. But often, those kids are miserable. Adultified children suffer. They're pressured, either culturally or by partners/teachers/mentors to succeed or do things that an adult should be doing. Children can make intelligent choices, they can be knowledgeable, they can be smart. They can be wiser then their own parents. They aren't always "stupid kids with drool and a lolipop zipping around the playground with their twirly hat." But they are damn are happier that way.

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Predators: “The age of consent is lower in other countries!!11!1! We should abolish it!!!”

Meanwhile in countries where the age of consent is abolished:

Child bride spared execution in Iran after blood money is paid

Guardian story helped to draw attention to planned hanging of Goli Kouhkan over death of abusive husband

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"We shouldn't be meana to pedophiles because some pedophiles are children" is such a bad take honestly. Like, all pedophiles should get psychiatric help

Well to be fair, it isn’t just children /gen. There’s pedophiles who are in recovery too. Those with adult partners and even children who can’t due to economical or social stigma or the fear of violence.

There’s also those suffering with POCD who think they’re pedophiles but genuinely aren’t. God I know how hard it is to get help.

Also NOCD helped me so much get NOCD.

But a-lot of these people are also teachers, pastors, journeymen, doctors, therapists, politicians, presidents. Many of them are adults who can get help financially. They just. They just..choose not to.

They just don’t. And as resources they grow wider and wider and more accessible it’s getting harder to feel empathy for them. But I have to because I know what’s ultimately right.

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I’m genuinely trying my hardest not to snap at the massively abusive and ablelist rhetoric that “alters aren’t real!!! So it’s fine to have sex with a two year old one” I am going to lose my mind with fucking singlets.

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I WOULD ADD THE SCREENSHOT BUT I FOUND THE IMAGE OF ISFF SUPPORTING INCEST AND ITS LIKE 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 LORDDD the fact she deleted it too. like literally off her blog. and everyone is still defending her. covering up her tracks of being a fucking creep. and theyre all supporting it.

i hate hate haaaate how normalized incest has become as of late because no matter what it is abuse to me. it is predatory and it is unhealthy. there will always be some form of power imbalance. there is a reason it is "taboo" and unreasonable

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Also there was a smidge of internalized fetishization of trans men in there too. Very lovely. Given it was a “nephew” involved.

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You are actually so based about everything. Abusing your syskids is horrible and having sex when littles are fronting is predatory I dont care what other people sayyyy you shouldnt even WANT to have sex with a mentally 9 year old partt

You shouldn’t be wanting to have sex with kids PERIOD man.