This is Predatory behavior

Any/all - 23 - victim of online grooming + predation - Uplifting survivors and their stories while calling out predatory behavior - Anti Contact + Anti Radqueer - Coralqueer - DO NOT go after users I reblog, report and block

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Children are not sex objects

Obligatory (wip) intro + Masterpost

Hello, I am TIP. We are 23 year old, college student(s). Any/all. I'm not good at tumblr intros. The main things you should know about me is that we are survivors of grooming and I have made this blog to call out predatory behavior, discuss the psychology behind predation (what is and is not predation) and maybe my own story one day.

BLOG RULE(s) + DNI - DO NOT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD RUSH INTO ANY OF THE WEIRDOS I REBLOGS INBOXES. (Especially if you are a minor) - ESPECIALLY DO NOT DO THIS TO "AAMS", they are likely survivors of predation who do not understand they are being used by an adult who should know better.

#This-is-Predation - self explanatory #This-is-a-predator - Self explanatory

#This-Is-Child-Endangerment - Self explanatory

#This-Is-Grooming - Self explanatory

#This-Is-A-Grooming-Den-Beware - self exp

#This-is-Enabling - Self exp

#This-is-a-minor-in-danger - self exp

#This-is-rape-apologia-self exp

# Resources - Resources for survivors and those undergoing abuse + misc

#Discussion - I talk about a certain topic.

#My-Story - My own experience with being groomed

#Other's-stories - Others experiences with predation/sa

#Do-not-interact - Do not interact with this person/go after them

resources: Discussions: Healing is possible Are minors "stupid?" TIP'S position on Xenosatanism (spoiler: He condemns it). Who receives the designation of predator on this blog: Mod is tranfem.

Dividers by Junabuggy

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THE HARM TO TRANS WOMEN WAS THE RAPE, ACTUALLY!

THE HARM TO TRANS WOMEN IS REFUSING TO DEFEND AND PROTECT THEM FROM INTERCOMMUNITY PREDATORS, ACTUALLY!

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the isff clique is an active danger to trans women on multiple fronts

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reiterating that the primary victims of intracommunity predators are people they think they can get away with abusing, most notably other trans women

because even a lot of our supposed sisters and allies would rather stand with our abusers than us

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Hmm now what does this line remind me of..

Stanford sexual assault: Brock Turner's father sparks outrage

The father of a US student convicted of sexual assault sparks outrage by saying his son should not have been jailed for "20 minutes of actio

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This is predatory

I hate this mf

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Aight, back to studying. I’ve had my angry time. Tata!

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Also I do not regret calling that motherfucker a rapist.

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Even with the current narrative at the time. 17 and 2 is still pretty fucking heinous and the fact people were willing to lie about it and say she was a minor was a poor attempt at extinguishing it. Hell, I’m pretty sure this was an attempt to be like Patricia Taxxon and encourage people to have sex with child alters. Which, again I will state is rape. I will scream and yell it is rape. You’ve either groomed your systemmate or they’ve been groomed themselves.

And even if that child is somehow, god be willing, an adult I as a system I would still be incredibly alarmed without or with context because YOU are attracted to someone who self ids as a child and now everyone around you is going to question if thats what you’re willing to stop at just a child who conveniently has the mind of an adult. It’s not that they’re cognitively an adult that is the fucking issue. It’s that when the opportunity arose to date someone who is pretty much a child in all aspects except outside of headspace and is consciencely an adult according to YOU not that alter, by the way. (It’s pretty much fucking always conveniently the person who’s not the alter who’s explaining it) you immediately took it. Not because they’re smart, they’re funny, a shared hobby or whatever but because you now have plausible deniability and can indulge your paraphilia publicly without it being seen as illegal. I’m not gonna trust the words of a pedophile.

Whenever someone questions why you are dating a two year old you can immediately accuse them of being a bigot who is trying to socially murder you. I garunfuckingte it’s about only sex, because that’s all I see whenever these child alters are brought up. I feel bad whenever I see these 20, 30, sometimes even 40 year old freaks bring up having sex with a child alter using the “we’re both adults!” thing. Because you’re still objectifying them. You’re still attracted to them because they’re physically a child. Even with “other shit” that they will magically make up to try and romanticize it that may be involved that may lead up to it, that’s still a kid. It looks like a kid bro. You’re still attracted to a toddler and that’s typically that’s the prime reason you’re having sex with them. It’s impossible to separate that child bit. Though attempting to get them to admit that is fucking impossible. And let’s be honest, they’ll never admit to this irl. Queer people have been openly queer and proud even under the threat of immediate death. Even in places you will actively be thrown off a building for being queer, queer people still openly talk about their partners, openly loving their partners. You will never find a pedophile who openly lives as a pedophile because they KNOW it’s wrong.

Instead, they will find any cognitive distortion, any social loophole, any position of power they can exploit to gain access to “””partners.””” And flock together to shield themselves and others from accountability along with gaslit dumbasses think they’re standing with “their sisters!!1!11!1l” When you’re standing with someone who likely is more fascistic then your average trump voter.

A queer person lives to love and live, a predator lives to objectify and exploit.

Sorry I crashed out.

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Btw, this is NOT a transandrophobia blog but the moment i see "kill all tmes!" I immediately wince in incredible disgust.

Tme = afab to them. Everytime you advocate for the eradication of a are advocating for eradication of "tmes" you are advocating the death of not only just "afab" transmasculine and nonbinary individuals. (I could go off on agab language and how incorrect and stupid this binary is) but Intersex and plural transfems would die as well. Many, many trans girls are incorrectly labelled as afab, many many transfems are PLURAL and have "afab" bodies. You are ADVOCATING for the murder of intersex and plural transfems.

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"Yea, let's advocate for the killing of other trans women because" looks at hand "They're born in..uh..the wrong body!" "A-and trans people we do not like!" You people are fascists.

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Btw, this is NOT a transandrophobia blog but the moment i see "kill all tmes!" I immediately wince in incredible disgust.

Tme = afab to them. Everytime you advocate for the eradication of afab people, advocating for eradication of "tmes" you are advocating the death of not only just "afab" transmasculine and nonbinary individuals. (I could go off on agab language and how incorrect and stupid this binary is) but Intersex and plural transfems would die as well. Many, many trans girls are incorrectly labelled as afab, many many transfems are PLURAL and have "afab" bodies. You are ADVOCATING for the murder of intersex and plural transfems.

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The mod(s) are transfem. Shut the fuck up and quit speaking over one.

Wait until they find out there are numerous transfems and downright trans women in my system and watch these mofos get violently ableist and transphobic reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaal fast. Sure, me (TIP) uses he/they/it but a lot of these posts are written by these transfems as well and they help me write it. There isn't exactly one soul who contributes to this blog. The voices OF trans women, many whom were victimized by predatory people speak here. Watch them de-legitimize me being transfem under a blanket of "woke".

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okay 'anti-c (🤨) paraphilia activist' / self-proclaimed child lover / proud owner of a Lot of pedophile 'pride' merchandise. this is so fucking worrying and insidious and sort of exemplifies a lot of the issues i have with this group's particular brand of activism. everyone hates you, all tme people hate you, all of the internet hates you but not us! so for your own safety you should cut everyone else off and only interact with us. i'm sure. i'm sure this could have no bad consequences for young transfems drawn into these circles.

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The Proud Merch owning Pedophile, Zoophile, Necrophile, and Little Girl Lover Ellie Barrow of Kirkwood Community College from Marion, Iowa,

IS NOW ASKING MINORS TO CONTACT HER!

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This is predatory.

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isff IS a horrible person though. a lot of the blogs dedicated to talking about her (alienlike for example) have been nuked but one of the good ones if noblackwomannocry. i know u dont like discourse and i dont blame u i just want u to know the truth.

What the actual fuck

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I fucking warned everyone.

This is predatory.

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Also im never turning anon on again, you want to tell me to kill myself? Do so physically so you can lose your blog. <3

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Also I do not regret calling that motherfucker a rapist.

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Alright, I’m back,

Not gonna lie, I considered not coming back. Some of the creeps on here are genuinely deranged and idiotic. But this blog is how I, a victim of S/A speak out. So, I’m gonna limit my amount of time to prevent attention seeking predator apologists from coming in here and whining.

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I might come back soon, honestly I don’t know. People can’t seem to hold someone who happens to be a minority accountable.

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i swear to fucking god the more I delve into the shit that's on here the less and less empathy i feel for the idiots on here.

also, on that one post I'm not even gonna respond to it, dude- they called me cunt and all sorts of shit. Read.

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Comic by a user who wishes to remain anonymous.

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dumb ask but can you tell what is flag?

Coralqueer

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Hey guys, I’m back :)

I did have to take a bit of a mental health break tbh. Predator apologia fuckin..sucked.