This is Predatory behavior

He/they/it - 22 - victim of online grooming + predation - Uplifting survivors and their stories while calling out predatory behavior - Anti Contact + Anti Radqueer - Coralqueer - DO NOT go after users I reblog, report and block

[this-is-predatory]

Children are not sex objects

Obligatory (wip) intro + Masterpost

Hello, I am TIP. I'm a 22 year old, college student. I'm not good at tumblr intros. The main things you should know about me is that I am a survivor of grooming and I have made this blog to call out predatory behavior, discuss the psychology behind predation (what is and is not predation) and maybe my own story one day.

BLOG RULE(s) + DNI - DO NOT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD RUSH INTO ANY OF THE WEIRDOS I REBLOGS INBOXES. (Especially if you are a minor) - ESPECIALLY DO NOT DO THIS TO "AAMS", they are likely survivors of predation who do not understand they are being used by an adult who should know better.

#This-is-Predation - self explanatory #This-is-a-predator - Self explanatory

#This-Is-Child-Endangerment - Self explanatory

#This-Is-Grooming - Self explanatory

#This-Is-A-Grooming-Den-Beware - self exp

#This-is-Enabling - Self exp

#This-is-a-minor-in-danger - self exp

#This-is-rape-apologia-self exp

# Resources - Resources for survivors and those undergoing abuse + misc

#Discussion - I talk about a certain topic.

#My-Story - My own experience with being groomed

#Other's-stories - Others experiences with predation/sa

#Do-not-interact - Do not interact with this person/go after them

resources: Discussions: Healing is possible Are minors "stupid?" TIP'S position on Xenosatanism (spoiler: He condemns it). Who receives the designation of predator on this blog:

Dividers by Junabuggy

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I might come back soon, honestly I don’t know. People can’t seem to hold someone who happens to be a minority accountable.

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i swear to fucking god the more I delve into the shit that's on here the less and less empathy i feel for the idiots on here.

also, on that one post I'm not even gonna respond to it, dude- they called me cunt and all sorts of shit. Read.

[ridafi14]

Comic by a user who wishes to remain anonymous.

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dumb ask but can you tell what is flag?

Coralqueer

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Hey guys, I’m back :)

I did have to take a bit of a mental health break tbh. Predator apologia fuckin..sucked.

[leftwingwatch]

RE: Why are you as an adult fucking your inner child?

In the leather kink spaces I left behind, this was a necessary sentiment for participating in getting your ass beat for fun.

And while I left because these people (mostly white) couldn't make up there minds about fucking raceplay, I think that sentiment is strong because it's not a child psychology thing. It was like their one standard of 'let's not play out scenes you've explicitly been through, its just as UNSERIOUS about the play aspectvit is damaging." Because the scene is not reality.

Because these older men had been hit, beat, fetishized, spat on, pissed on, called slurs, spanked, drugged, whipped whateverrrr.

But the present adults in time are not engaging in their former abuse for oe with each other, they are sharing their love of kink in an intimate scene. I say intimate, not private, because being nonparticipatory (not masturbatory either) viewer of these scenes in bars and in daylight on the street WAS truly fucking revolutionary.

So I ask you after my time with titleholders at the back bar of Touché, who offered to carve me, as was their kink and mine, why would I simply fucking ask you not to share that with kids and to not involve your child trauma in kink?

It's YOUR business, you should have some reservations and boundaries to as to able to know when you should rescind consent, it's YOUR body and trauma and if you continuously involve it with a partner, you can BOTH get triggered and hurt during sex and to put it square and fucking simple, there is no kink you can participate in an intimate space that HAS to involve children.

If you were ddlg in a dm or chatroom that is so fucking different than role-playing as your teenage alter on main OR demanding children be privy to YOUR kink practice rather than simply fucking informing them that they exist and how to do it safely.

There is nothing progressive about fucking kids on and offline. Not a single fucking thing is revolutionary about grooming practice. Thank you.

[paracovery]

Some Resources!

Here is a compilation of some resources for those with paraphilic disorders and symptoms in recovery! A lot of these are primarily for those struggling with pedophilia, but may be helpful for other paraphilias. I will do my best to find more resources as well.

Resources for People Concerned About Their Sexual Thoughts and Behavior | MOORE | Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Resources for people concerned about their own sexual thoughts and behavior regarding children.

Having sexual thoughts about children doesn’t always lead to sexual behaviour. You have the power to choose how you behave and this guide gi

[anglaised]

this website is awesome bc u can see someone make a post saying butchness is evil and needs to be cured by forcing them to paint their nails and be more girly and u go to block that person and the blog is filled with nothing but little sister porn like okay. butchness is too far and regressive and nasty but wanting to touch little girls is inspiring or something whatever blow da website up

[panicatthecriscodisco]

yeah i'm a selfshipper too! never talk about it for a reason! i'm gonna take this one step further and speculate that the reason they never talk about nccsa, not even to invalidate the concept, is that if even that concept gets through to some people we'll be seeing a lot more testimonies against big names. —isuggestnotbeingacreep

yeah if we spread even like a modicum of awareness of the fact that online grooming and sexual contact is still child sex abuse even if no one gets touched there would be a lot of people suddenly hoping their fanbase gets really really cool with a lot of things incredibly quickly

[this-is-predatory]

Cleaned up my intro a bit so it’s easier on the eyes and much more sorted.

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Hi guys I’m still alive just touching grass

[thesituation]

i keep seeing people mention a statistic where most child predators are apparently not pedophiles and i just really need you guys to put on your thinking caps for a minute and think about the limitations of a study that relies on someone’s testimony on their personal feelings, and juxtapose that limitation with the subjects’ vested interest in lying about said feelings. do you honest to god think someone who sexually abused a child is going to tell a researcher, doctor, or authority of any kind “yes i’m a pedophile.” no because then their evaluated risk of reoffending goes up. they will lie about it, because it bolsters their explanation of it being a misunderstanding or a one-time mistake. every sexual predator who preys on a child is a pedophile. you cannot be attracted to children without being a danger, because you aren’t sexually attracted to children in the same way someone is gay or straight, you are sexually aroused by the power imbalance and the fact that children cannot say no. children lack the knowledge and tools to reject an adult’s sexual advances, and are easily used for sexual gratification because of that. pedophiles aren’t attracted to children, they’re taking advantage of the unique vulnerability that children have. that’s why these things always come with rape and incest fantasies. it isn’t about what you find attractive about a person, it’s about the ability of the person to effectively consent, and the inability for that person to get away. stop letting them muddy the waters. don’t entertain their half-truths. keep your eyes open and your brain sharp.

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People claiming I’m doing this because I hate ONE person who happens to be transfem and that I’m doing this because I hate their gender identity.

No??? Frankly, when I look at discourse, a person’s gender identity is an entirely separate subject from what they did. Which is what I ACTUALLY care about. No one should be immune to criticism due to their identity.

[suggestrogen]

actually, nah, im officially taking my leave here. i dont know why tonight it all feels so much worse. every time i close my eyes i see those pictures again. idk. i wanted to shitpost and now ive had to see child abuse happening in real time.

again ive reported what ive found, and im holding steadfast in my decision to not post anything about it-- because again, as cathartic as it might be to release names and watch these people get torn to shreds online, all that will do is make them scatter like the cockroaches they are, and make it harder for there to actually be any justice here. the people saying that its somehow "sus" that i dont want to do this (while also accusing me of trying to witch hunt people.... that i dont even want to name. somehow), are either completely ignorant about how the law works in regards to cases of child abuse. or, more likely, are predators trying to get me to reveal my hand, so they can figure out what i know and whos been compromised. either way, if you ever find yourself in the unfortunate situation im in, know that you cannot trust anyone saying that.

idk. its not like its my first time seeing something horrible and traumatizing on the internet. but i need to leave before this affects me more than it has.

to the normal people who see this: you know who these accounts are, the ones accusing me and others of running a "transmysoginistic harassment campaign" for having the gall to say that pedophilia is bad and that this shit hurts trans women. do not harass them, just block, report them, and, if you see them harming children report it to the police.

to the dolls in my ask box: thank you for the evidence you have provided and for all the kind messages. you are wonderful and i hope someday these people go away and stop tarnishing you like this. you do not deserve it.

to all the terminally online pedophiles crying about this account: congrats! you managed to disturb me so much that i had to call it quits. this will not change the fact that you are going to face consequences for your actions one day.

and to everyone who thanked me for introducing them to jenni rivera's music: idk i kinda like soda stereo more you should listen to them too

idk thats it. i might log in to share fundraisers every so often but im done here. bye lol

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I'm sorry this happened to you :(

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I’m genuinely trying my hardest not to snap at the massively abusive and ablelist rhetoric that “alters aren’t real!!! So it’s fine to have sex with a two year old one” I am going to lose my mind with fucking singlets.

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As a system, I'm not going to give in to the dogshit, dehumanizing frankly ableist rhetoric that this shitass singlets are spewing. There were even a few systems that agreed with that bullshit.

I have thoughts, memories, lived experiences that are entirely different from the fellow alters in my system. I am a person. My headmates are people. And these actual compost-for-brain singlets do NOT realize how horrifying it is for a system to be talking about have sex with two year old headmates. There is NO reason for a system member to be joking about that. I want to want every singlet involved in this discourse to shut the fuck up forever and stop speaking over a plural person. If you did that to an underage systemmate, it's intra-system violence. It's rape. And I'm tired of being spoken over. I'm tired of people who don't even have my fucking disorder delegitimizing my existence.

Alright, I'm calm now.

[isuggestmaimingpedophiles]

From her bluesky, it seems like ISFF won’t be coming back again. No idea if she’ll stick to that but hopefully she gets the memo that ban evasion isn’t going to get her anywhere and her previous platform on tumblr is officially gone.

Please let this actually be true. Like to charge reblog to cast.

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PLEASE GOD PLEASE