RULE # 1 - Don't be a (or show me your) dick
This seems simple enough, but so many guys miss the mark on it pretty regularly.
Remember, folks, your friendly neighborhood sex workers are more than their private bits that you love ever so much! We also have thoughts, emotions, and are just as much human as you are. I know its easy to see us as simply t-n-a on your screen but I promise I am not some android robot churning out content 24/7!
I need sleep.
I get sick
I have bad days.
I dont always look perfect.
When you pay my for content you are paying me for the realism that comes along with not-studio-produced porn. I dont get paid a salary wether you buy my content or not. I solely rely on people and their horniness finding my attractive enough to pay me money.
So, being nice goes a long way. The stress is real. We get treated as less than human pretty regularly by society at large and sometimes by our own clients! I havent been doing this long but I can't tell you how many times a man has bought my content just to turn around and tell me that no man will ever want me unless I get out of this business and get a "real job". Wheton's Law is what gets you the difference between top notch service with a smile on my face or a "pay me or gtfo" attitude. So be appreciative of your sex workers. Show them love and respect and they will absolutely return the favor.
As for the second part of that title, just because you want to see us doesn't mean we want to see you. Violating consent is shitty no matter how you wrap it. So keep your dicks to yourselves or find someone who does dick rating as a service! There are a ton of us who will look at your dick if you want! But I promise you arent the only one in our inbox sending photos that we don't usually want to see. Buy your content, say thank you, and go get off. ;)