#sexworkerproblems

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I highly recommend this documentary!!!

[lilythebrat]

RULE # 1 - Don't be a (or show me your) dick

This seems simple enough, but so many guys miss the mark on it pretty regularly.

Remember, folks, your friendly neighborhood sex workers are more than their private bits that you love ever so much! We also have thoughts, emotions, and are just as much human as you are. I know its easy to see us as simply t-n-a on your screen but I promise I am not some android robot churning out content 24/7!

I need sleep.

I get sick

I have bad days.

I dont always look perfect.

When you pay my for content you are paying me for the realism that comes along with not-studio-produced porn. I dont get paid a salary wether you buy my content or not. I solely rely on people and their horniness finding my attractive enough to pay me money.

So, being nice goes a long way. The stress is real. We get treated as less than human pretty regularly by society at large and sometimes by our own clients! I havent been doing this long but I can't tell you how many times a man has bought my content just to turn around and tell me that no man will ever want me unless I get out of this business and get a "real job". Wheton's Law is what gets you the difference between top notch service with a smile on my face or a "pay me or gtfo" attitude. So be appreciative of your sex workers. Show them love and respect and they will absolutely return the favor.

As for the second part of that title, just because you want to see us doesn't mean we want to see you. Violating consent is shitty no matter how you wrap it. So keep your dicks to yourselves or find someone who does dick rating as a service! There are a ton of us who will look at your dick if you want! But I promise you arent the only one in our inbox sending photos that we don't usually want to see. Buy your content, say thank you, and go get off. ;)

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Really weird verification tbh. Especially since they only ask age. I *offered* my ID but I garauntee they don't get offered ID very often. No one should have you verify with naked pictures. I've been doing this about 9 years in August & I have *never* been asked to verify with naked pics from a reputable advertising source.

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They're never interested at this point lol

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I've been such a dick lately lol big dick energy ladies, use it.

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Hi! I've been an online sw for 7 months now. I have a couple of questions. My first one is about Tumblr, is it possible for someone to make a post on most common or hashtags that would get posts more viewed with all the sexworker hashtags? My other question is, is it possible to get like a list of names if places you can sell online? Like a list of websites. And maybe tips and tricks to better market yourself? Thanks so much 🖤

Sorry for the delayed response; I recommend looking thru my personal selling blog (here) to see what I tag my posts with. I generally tag them with “kik” then go thru the alphabet & click all that apply when suggestions pop up-- “kik a” (kik adult, adult kik) “kik b” (kik baby, kik babygirl) “kik s” (kik seller, kik selling). If you’re not using kik to make contacts you really should be. 

I made a post (here) regarding sites I use for advertising my kik username. I’d say I get most of my traffic from kiksexting & reddit-- kiksexting seems to get the quickest hits but there’s a huge potential for time wasters so just be concious of that. Guys will DEFINITELY try to waste your time and keep you hanging by a thread. If it sounds too good to be true and nothing happens within 48 hours-- block them. They’re wasting your time. Absolutely DO NOT SEND anything naughty until that money POSTS in your account. Don’t accept their screenshots as proof of SHIT. 

Here are some other sites that may be helpful, you may more may not fine them lucrative but if anything.. it gets your name out there: (most of these websites you have the ability to block people from certain states/regions)

Side Daddy

MyFreeCams

MFC Share

Chaturbate

ManyVids

OnlyFans

Patreon

FanCentro

IWantClips (good for femdom)

Feabie (feeder fetish, careful posting “selling”)

FetLife

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Not into dudes who avoid questions & point fingers yet want shit from me. Don't expect my kindness if you want to assume that I'm asking for money. YOU hit ME up.. knowing what I'm after. Knowing how direct I am. If you don't actually read my blog THAT'S ON YOU. If you didnt know I'm direct and not into bullshit THAT'S ON YOU. I can only make myself so clear without sounding like a complete cunt.

Do not waste my time!