i had a career to build, you know? i had to secure my future and take care of my parents and make sure they had everything they need. i’ve focused on work for... the last decade, i believe? it’s a very long time. this is what i wanted had to do. i don’t think you can be truly ready for a tiny human being to turn your life upside down. putting a time limit is also not a good idea, in my opinion. life has a way of surprising us and i’ve learned the hard way that sometimes it’s best just to go with the flow. to me, having kids go beyond popping a small potato looking alien out of my lady parts. you can be a parent figure in so many ways! adoption, fostering, having pets, taking care of relatives, of friends’ children... as much as i want children, it’s also not the only way to feel complete and fulfilled as a woman. if i never get the chance to have my own, i hope i can still be surrounded by happy kids and i can find ways to share all of my love and affection with other people in my life.