Rule 11
October 2025 update based on recent changes to Discord’s ToS:
We are strongly pro-ship and believe in preserving a safe, open space for the tomarrymort community. That said, moving forward, please refrain from using the following blocked terms on the server even in reference of what not to say, so that we can continue to operate within Discord’s policies, while still staying true to our anti-censorship values. Examples are provided below as to how to frame things differently.
❌ Blocked terms: shota, shotacon, loli, lolicon, toddlercon, babycon, pedo, pedophilia, cp, child sexual abuse, extreme underage, ephebophilia, hebephilia
✅ Acceptable terms: UA, EUA, Underage
❌ Blocked: Explicit mentions of age if under 18 (e.g., 14 years old)
✅ Acceptable alternatives:
References by book titles (CoS, PoA, GoF, etc.), Xth Year (Fourth year), Calendar years (94-95), By major events (Graveyard Resurrection scene, DoM battle, Hogwarts era, Tom at Wool's, etc.)
You may also use the "United Airlines" format popularized by hp-kinkmeme, where flight length refers to age (e.g., 14 hr. flight on United Airlines), or the United Airlines logo emoji.
Sharing links to fics on ao3 that contain explicit, fictional underage material is expressly allowed. NSFW illustrations that are not obviously underage are also allowed in the server, but moderators may intervene at their discretion if they feel the content violates Discord’s ToS in a way that may endanger the server or anyone in it. Any explicit content involving or appearing to involve actual minors (or requests for/offers of such content) is obviously not allowed, and will result in an immediate ban.
Special thanks to @hpkinkmeme for inspiring this list and methodology of handling Discord’s policies. If you have questions about terms not included on the list, please contact the mod team directly.
Edit 10/11: We have removed "underage" and "grooming" from the blocked terms. The term "Extreme underage" is still blocked.