Do you have any tips for unblurring? We are blurry quite often and while we know it’s okay to not always know who’s fronting, it can still be incredibly distressing and disorienting at times.
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What helps us most is a mix of grounding (link) and a sort of "who am I?" quiz/flow chart. It's not an exact science, but it helps us to narrow it down to a handful of parts.
Questions might include:
Do I feel more masculine or feminine? Neither? Both?
Am I feeling more outgoing, or more reclusive?
Which of these archetypes fits me best? (Things like character tropes, D&D alignments, etc.)
What [blank] do I like most? (Things like colours, animals, hobbies, etc.)
What kind of imagery/aesthetics am I most drawn to?
Of course, this list isn't exhaustive. It's not even all of the questions we use, as some of them can be very personal.
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