EXO MTL similar to their on screen personality behind cameras
(I don't know what his official status is - if he's still a member or not -, but I'm still adding him in because I haven't seen any official announcement saying one thing or the other.) Lay || queen of wands: The exact same! I can't see any differences, honestly. He's just as friendly, warm and creative as he is on camera.
Chen || the chariot: Chen is really, really similar. The perception that we got from him after he decided to follow through with his marriage and career at the same time, is exactly what the real Chen is like. Before then, we didn't get the full picture.
Kai || the sun: He's pretty much the exact same as his off-stage persona; totally different from his on-stage persona, though.
Xiumin || ten of swords rx: At first he might've had the habit of hiding his real self a lot, but the mask slipped off as the years well by, naturally and without him even noticing. Right now he's really a mix of his on-screen persona and his past real-life self, and this, I think, he finally considers to be his truest self.
Suho || page of swords: I just get the sense that his off camera personality is more interesting?? He's definitely more talkative, easygoing and playful, and I also see him having a huge amount of interests (besides music and acting) that he doesn't share on camera. Suho is always learning, somehow. Plus, I think he really likes gossip, too... lol
Baekhyun || eight of wands rx: The most difficult aspects of his on-camera personality is what is most similar to his irl one, it seems. He's very scattered, impatient and impulsive. I just feel like when at work, because he has a "mission", he's able to stay focused and take it slower; when off camera, he just goes off the rails.
Sehun || seven of wands: "Bratty" is what I heard as soon as the card jumped out… lol. His personality is similar, but a bit more difficult to deal & put up with. Being on camera just forces him to tone it down a little.
Chanyeol || five of cups: On camera, Chanyeol comes off as a bright, outgoing, playful person, but behind the scenes he's way more sensitive and thoughtful. He's definitely way quieter in real life than he is on camera, too.
D.O || nine of cups rx: In a weird way, I think he likes his on camera personality more than his irl one. That must be because, behind the scenes, he finds himself being stuck on the most negative/difficult aspects of his personality, and that is not something he enjoys - he just can't move past it. He's irritable, often feels empty, nothing seems to satisfy him, everybody annoys him… he doesn't like being that way, but doesn't really know how to stop acting like that or to stop feeling those things.
(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies.)