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[theninthdoor]

Hi! I’m not even expecting a reply if you don’t feel like it, but I’ve been thinking a lot and wondering: how do you know which degree to pursue or what to do after finishing high school? I’m a bit lost, and I’m just about to graduate.

hi! no, it's OK 🤍 glad to help if I can.

I actually struggled a lot to choose a major as well because at the time I felt like I wanted to do and be a thousand things yet nothing at all. plus, I also feared that I was never going to be good enough at anything and that no matter what I chose, it would be a complete disaster. in the end, though, I went with what I was the most interested in + what I felt like I would/could genuinely enjoy studying and being involved in for a long time (or at least for a while, because I also tried to keep in mind the fact it's possible for us to change paths. it may cost us something - money, mostly -, but it is possible and if it's what we need, then it's worth it. be it still in university or when you're older and just wish to change careers.). so, it wasn't so much about what would offer me the most stable or successful future, but more so about choosing something that I enjoyed studying/doing on a daily basis and that wouldn't feel like something that I was being forced to get into. and although I didn't even think too much about potential jobs or career options (for the future), I did consider the skills or "talents" that I felt or knew that I had so it was still a safe option of sorts.

but this is what worked for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ can't assure that it's going to work for everybody. besides, while I was still in college I figured out that what I actually wanted to do for a living wouldn't require that degree at all, and so that was a whole other thing to think about and decide on... either way, I don't regret choosing that major and following through with my studies. it still made & makes perfect sense for me, and I did enjoy it very much. it was exactly what I loved studying, researching, writing and talking about - despite not being what I wanted to do for a living, again.

on the other hand, I also have a few friends who chose their majors based on skills or safety/potential for financial and professional stability alone! so, it's all about priorities and/or what you can or can't afford to put first/focus on.

hope this helps! and if anyone reading this has anything to add, feel free to comment or send me a dm and I will post it ✋🏻

[theninthdoor]

thank you for replying to me and pulling more cards for me

https://www.tumblr.com/theninthdoor/823414513331290112/hey-again-thanks-for-giving-me-a-reading-i-would?source=share

yeah my friends have told me its not worth trying anymore because we have a lot of other issues and its been a lot of stress for me which has been bad for my health. i tried to tell him to do things and set boundaries and he says he will but he hasnt and my friends said to break up with him when i move for my new job. i think they are right but i am still hopeful that he will realize that if he doesn't change he will lose me. but its really hard for me to let go and accept it wont work. so yeah thank you for your advice

you're welcome 🤍

that's exactly the point: he either makes an effort to change - somehow; however it's possible for him -, or this just doesn't seem like something that is healthy for either of you and worthy of your time and energy going forward. and it's not a matter of you loving each other or not. sometimes we do have to consider what's best for everyone, regardless of feelings, and makes our decisions based on that. because even loving relationships can be unhealthy and fail.

but good luck, honey! hope you two find a way to fix this 🙏🏻

[theninthdoor]

If we sent in an ask but it wasnt answered, do we submit again when you do the next 15? Thank you!

yes, you can do that! no problem whatsoever 😌

[theninthdoor]

Will you do games more often ;(

will try! maybe not always the same type, though.

[theninthdoor]

hi! Do you do NSFW readings?

not public ones, only paid personal/private readings! ✋🏻

[theninthdoor]

You only did fifteen so far or thirty

15 now (first round) and 15 after (second round). so it's 30 free readings total for the whole game; not on the same day.

[theninthdoor]

What time zone are you in I missed the game

will let you know the time the game starts when I decide on the day! no worries 💞

[theninthdoor]

hey again! thanks for giving me a reading. i would say yeah i have a habit of ignoring things or letting them happen again. this is the reading you gave me https://www.tumblr.com/theninthdoor/823412126631723008/hey-my-initials-are-md-im-a-sagittarius-sun?source=share

we have actually been together for a year and a half and i moved to his country after meeting him online. I'm not sure if i should have given more context but i have been telling him to get therapy and apply to jobs this past year but he hasnt done that. so im not sure what to do and i still think i really love him and want to be with him. do you think we have a future together?

im really sorry i hope its ok for me to mention that maybe i should have mentioned those things before when i first asked...Thank You

you're welcome! 🤍

and that makes sense... what has been + is troubling you can't be ignored for much longer because it's not healthy for either of you, will only continue to get worse, and immaturity (mostly from his part but also from yours, as you avoid solving these issues) is definitely getting in the way of this being something much better. the greater good needs to be considered too sometimes.

besides, that thing of "if at times you feel like you actually can't trust your partner, you need to address that and a find a solution or clarity" seems super important... you may love him very much, but after a certain point you need to start questioning whether he's actually worthy - based on his current actions and efforts - of all of this trust and belief that you're putting on him. and that matter of you moving to his country after meeting him online is probably what we were picking up on when we were talking about things becoming too serious too quickly. this relationship is committed and loving, yes, but it shouldn't be feeling super heavy. particularly with all that is going on between you lately.

do you think we have a future together? || five of wands rx, the tower rx: if he loves you and wishes to keep this relationship going for a long time, he needs to get it together - that's the deal. somehow, he must try to better himself, both for your sake and for his sake. and I understand how tricky dealing with certain mental health issues and other difficult life circumstances can be! not trying to dismiss his hardships at all! all I am saying is that you are going to get tired of holding it together at some point... and even if you stay for a long time, if he doesn't change, this is not going to be a happy relationship. it certainly has potential, but potential alone isn't enough. your dynamic and behaviour needs to change soon.

[theninthdoor]

I'm curious what's energy off means I was looking if you got to my ask and I saw your reply to another

when we say that the energy feels off, usually it mean that it's unstable, uncertain, and/or that the overall answer to the question (or the energy surrounding that situation) feels more negative than positive. and in this particular case, what I was saying is that although things don't look great, they might still be able to better their chances by making some moves of their own right now and changing the direction things are going in. but if they don't, then everything will probably stay the same - as I put it then. what they're expecting is most likely not going to happen (or won't happen as they expect it to).

[theninthdoor]

Game ended? 😭 Nooo

yes, just posted the very last of the 15 readings! but I will be doing another round of the game either next week or the week after - and earlier in the day, so those who missed this one due to the time zone difference still have a chance to participate 💗 will let everyone know when that's happening a bit closer to the date, though!

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https://www.tumblr.com/theninthdoor/823326216480292864/aurora-leo-sun-cancer-moon-will-i-be-moved-abroad?source=share

Hi I'm very very confused by everything you've said 😭

What do you mean? Wasn't the question about whether you're going to be able to move abroad this year or in 2027? If so, in late 2026 is when you have higher chances of getting good news regarding that. Yet to make sure that you can actually make this happen, you should be doing whatever it's possible right now to improve your odds - because something about this overall energy still feels very off.

Sorry if I misunderstood, though! And feel free to DM me for clarifications or if you need to give me more context and don't feel comfortable sharing it with everyone else here.

[theninthdoor]

helloooooo

may i ask how my career path will be in this and next year? i’m kind of stuck in a pretty toxic workplace and am looking for a change that is a little pivot from my career and i’m a bit hesitant to take that route

tysmmm, hb, libra sun, scorpio moon!

cards: eight of wands rx, knight of cups rx, six of cups, eight of swords

If you continue to resist change, the frustration that you're already feeling will only continue to pile up. Nothing about that workplace or the people who surround will change for the better and permanently; only here or there, a little bit and for short periods of time. Which means that it might be manageable, yes, since you're used to it and since it's consistent, but do know that the (negative) experiences will continue to repeat themselves; these are cycles that can't be broken with hope and well wishes. And while it feels like this leap of faith that you're thinking of taking might be a little risky, if it means that you are feeling better about yourself and that you're in a better environment altogether, it might be the right choice. However, if you can find something that is still more or less familiar to you and not super super different from what you're doing (but different enough so that you're still moving in a different direction), that might actually be what's most ideal - even if it's a temporary thing; just something to help you transition from one field to the other without you feeling overwhelmed or unprepared for the big change.

(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies.)

[theninthdoor]

Hello,

I'm Maria and I would like to participate in the tarot game. I am a sagittarius sun and moon and my rising is in taurus.

My question is, since I am considering opening up to dating/romance/love/relationships again, after a long time, how should I approach it /do to so it will be successful? Is there any luck for me? 😅

Thank you for the game💞

cards: five of wands, the hermit rx, four of pentacles, seven of cups rx

The Hermit reversed slipped out of the deck without me noticing, so that's making me feel like in order for you to not be wasting a ton of time with people who aren't worthy of your attention or affection, you should first figure out the kind of partner that you're really needing or wanting. Or rather - so you don't miss out on good opportunities because you're too focused on what you want to find -, the type of partner that you do not want. The things that are absolute dealbreakers for you, essentially. And the Four of Pentacles is saying as well that there's no need for you to be approaching this with anxiety or desperation. Take your time to find the right person, and don't try to force yourself to do things or to like someone that clearly aren't/isn't for you just because you want to be in a relationship or to be in love again. Moving with your intuition is very important! Also, Taurus, Capricorn and Scorpio energy coming through strongly (with the Death card being at the bottom of the deck as well), so keep an eye out for anyone with those signs! You might be lucky with them!

(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies.)

[theninthdoor]

hey my initials are MD im a sagittarius sun sagittarius moon

my question is what advice do u have for me about my relationship with my bf? thank you in advance

cards: ace of pentacles rx, page of cups, ace of wands rx, two of swords

Sweeping things under the rug or fooling yourselves into believing that certain things are OK when they're not is only going to cause you both a ton of problems. Instead, try keeping a healthy line of communication going and address, with reason and good sense, all that bothers and all that seems to be not so right when it happens or comes up. Also, I think it's important that you two work on your sense of trust and patience. The Page of Cups tells me that there is definitely a lot of love and care here, and well wishes that go beyond a romantic relationship (so, it's not like you only care for one another because you're together romantically), but this also indicates that you two may run the risk of acting a little too immature at times or to be overly concerned about your own desires and feelings when you should be paying a bit more attention to what's the greater good (if not how the other person feels as well). And, again, trust is important. So, if at times you feel like you actually can't trust your partner, you need to address that and a find a solution or clarity!

Lastly, because the Knight of Wands is at the bottom of the deck, we're getting that even if you are committed to one another and wish for this to last for as long as possible, you shouldn't be forcing to be something that it isn't. It's more of a fun and lighthearted relationship in nature; one meant to bring you excitement and good memories and not weigh on you. So, if there's no need for you to be treating it as something super super serious as of yet, don't force it. Go with the flow.

(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies.)

[theninthdoor]

hi love! Thank you for reading for us 💛 here to join the game as well!

Name: Lin, ♎️ Sun & ♐️ Moon. Question - what should I be focusing on in my career to improve myself? Any advice or insights will be greatly appreciated! Tysm 🌻🫶

cards: the chariot rx, page of pentacles rx, six of pentacles, temperance

Two things: first, being open to collaboration and to learn from those around you. The Six of Pentacles is making it very clear to me that you can and should benefit a lot from that! - particularly at this stage of your career. Secondly, setting smaller goals and going little step by little step towards your big ones. So, pacing yourself too and staying organised, so you don't overwhelm yourself, become way too (or unrealistically) ambitious or put too much pressure when you shouldn't or risk losing focus by having too much on your mind yet no real sense of direction, or so that you don't lose motivation when things are taking too long to happen or evolve. Little achievements should keep you inspired, though. And perhaps this is really the best way for you to see real-time development in your own skills and results. Wanting for big moments only might be not be it at all. Also, the Six of Swords reversed is at the bottom of the deck followed by the Ace of Pentacles, which suggests that taking little breaks here and there is a must! Without that, you risk getting mentally and emotionally burned out, and that's only going to hold you back. And so, again, pace yourself and be mindful/intentional with every step that you're taking, even when they're smaller ones. And, well don't allow yourself to get lost in the sauce, basically. There's potential for that to happen here and for you to reach certain points when you're feeling like you have stagnated and don't know what else to do.

(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies

[theninthdoor]

hi!

K.R are my initials, scorpio sun and gemini moon, will i have a successful and famous career as a singer?

thanks 🩷

cards: page of pentacles, six of pentacles rx, the chariot, the fool rx

At some point in time I feel like you might lose the desire and motivation to make this your full-time career, honestly. But if you find that passion within yourself again, by being persistent, patient and believing in yourself, I do think that you will be able to get in the industry and find an audience for yourself. However, here's the thing: finding real success and fame is difficult, and you must be willing to do everything and anything that it takes. You have to fight for it, really hone your skills, prove yourself to those who matter, and value + be dedicated to every stage of the journey and every step that you have to take. Even so, absolute or long-term success isn't guaranteed, and sometimes you might have to be content with smaller achievements and with performing or with being in musician in different ways (like those who become songwriters for other artists after finding that they're not very lucky as performers themselves). Good luck, though! Wishing you the best!

(Disclaimer: All is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Based on current energies.)