#trad dating

[wonderlightnight]

Is it so bad that I want a man who's so genuinely obsessed with me that he needs to control and choose every facet of our lives together?

[wonderlightnight]

How many children will you bare for your spouse?

As many as my future husband wants. It is a woman's purpose, and giving that up to my husband shows him how much trust I have in him.

I trust him to decide

I trust him to choose

I trust him to know what God plans for our family

[annaberunoyume]

Why trad-style dating (courtship) is still cool:

It's perfectly safe. No risk of Stds.

It allows you to get to know your lover as a person, not just a beautiful body.

It's easier to correct course when you have just hugged them too soon than when you had sex too soon.

It can be very playful: the little furtive looks you send to each other as you hold hands, testing the waters. The little flower you may give her.

It can be magical in a way that casual sex can't be: when you slow dance together and dare to cuddle up, smelling their perfume and blushing rose.

It's a art that is cutely vintage and not just stereotypical: all can love a chair that is pulled, a coat offered, a "Ladies first" or a "Gentlemen first" or even "Sweet peas first".

It pushed you to make the night extra special, no matter what you choose, expensive Bâton-Rouge filet mignon or simply a McDonald's coffee together late at night.

It can be relaxing, no pressure.

Most of all, it allows you to see, over dates and activities, if that special one is a keeper.