as a he/they i'm kinda uncomfortable/sad with nobody using both of elliot page's pronouns. like yes please don't misgender him but they also go by they pronouns that nobody seems to use and i'm sad about that bc it does hurt when you have two sets of pronouns that you use and ppl only use one set, sorry for venting
you’re valid!! I think some people tend to pick one set and stick with it, but others will switch back and forth. I think the reason some folks pick one is for readability? and I also think some people prefer people mixing them but others (like myself) don’t really care (but i’m not a he/they i use neopronouns so it’s different, I would imagine)
anyway. you’re definitely right!! we should always respect folks who use mixed pronouns!! while idk how elliot page prefers folks to use their pronouns, but we (especially binary folks!) should be aware of any internal transmisia which causes us to focus on one of his sets of pronouns vs the other one!!