Josie. I really think this is getting out of hand, but I am asking this on my personal tumblr as it's coming from me, Stan, not as an admin of HYTL, so can we leave that blog out of it. I want to know more about how my behaviour is that of a transmysogynist? I somewhat understand the term, and I know I don't want to be one, just in a one to one conversation style, could you tell me how I am being one? Also, English is not my first language, which may be why I got the word slander wrong.
All those threads you derided as slander actually give a rather thorough accounting of your shit, so maybe actually try reading them instead of outright dismissing them as slander (which is also somewhat transmisogynistic)